It's been recommended that I should approach women, otherwise I will continue to have zero experience and probably get nothing. Online game has been shit for me, even if I get a couple numbers here and there, it's all fucking bullshit because nothing happens. It's "I'm approaching you platonically" or "I'm too nervous"... in any case, online game does not work for me and I'm not going to waste more time on it just to get the same fucking results.

Online game is out, then. The only thing that is left is approaching physically. But why would a guy like me approach?

I'm in my 30s, a genuine loser with learning problems and social difficulties, and I don't have my own place. Also, I don't date and I do not want to go on dates--everything I see on Seddit is "I can't get a second date!"--but I do not want to date. What would be the point of dating if I'm obviously incapable of it and fucking hate the idea? Dating is a mainstream, cliche concept that just makes my blood run cold, every time I think about it.

Obviously I am looking for flings and casual relationships--intimacy in bite-size doses so I'll at least know what it's like. (Face the facts: it's tough for a guy to like himself if he can't be with a woman even ONCE in his life.) I am okay with the concept of "hanging out" but I DO NOT WANT any kind of high-pressure situation.. which is exactly what a date is, with all those fucking stereotypes.

So I'm just saying that in my case, there is no point to approach women, it would only result in pain and embarrassment because everyone here knows women never accept losers in their 30s, I don't believe in dating, and I would not be able to bring any "women" home.

If anyone thinks otherwise--seems some of you do--well, why? If the outcome of 100% rejection is known, why would I want to make things worse for myself? It really makes no sense why any of you are optimistic with folks like me. I mean I can't even make myself join a gym because of social anxiety (I don't even know how to pay, at the front desk!)