Got rejected last night, would highly recommend it

suxess6 · 2016-11-02T20:25:35+00:00

I'm on about 90 rejections in a row so far. I Wouldn't necessarily recommend that! :)

PUA_Mobius · 2016-11-02T21:02:19+00:00

The stories of rejection are rarely told cause everyone wants to hear success, and tell success.

But even the most successful PUA's have been rejected countless times, and I really think more rejection FR's will help people learn how it's just as much a part of the game as anything else.

yummbeary · 2016-11-03T14:06:35+00:00

Because you could maintain a conversation, which is good, but you didn't create attraction or arousal. Next time, try qualification, show a little interest sexually and push and pull. 😉

Kurt_Kobain · 2016-11-02T17:56:59+00:00

It was definitely a nice experience.

No, it wasn't.

redditalien9 · 2016-11-03T10:13:18+00:00

No one mentions rejection stories ! We need more of that rather than the chest thumping success stories that are told here by PUAs without ever mentioning the multitudes of rejections they face as well. Quiet a lot of theses guys are actually good looking muscular hunks and they simply play on peoples insecurities to give them a false sense of hope without ever telling them the truth.

They make it seem like there is a secret formula. Yes there is. Be tall and/or good looking and/or rich with average confidence (above average confidence and u will be swimming in pussy) ! This is it. Women (especially the hot ones) are conditioned by stereotypes from media and social norms and they will respond to them well and give anything else a hell of a harder time. Most women will also judge you purely on how u come across physically rather than your intellect.( at least initially)

Look at the world ! It is not generous to short, below average looks and/or poor people. Learn to live with it. People will always say yes there are short/ugly/poor people who are good with women. Please cut the crap ! They are the exception not the rule. I am short and I have faced this my whole life ! I still dont give up. But yes I feel terrible time to time.

But that does not mean u beat urself down with it !

Cold approach is a sheer numbers game as is all PUA game ! Even if you are at the top of your game and socially very intuitive (so called naturals), you will still have a high rate of flakes (number close is not a close). So if u are ready to face the mountain of rejections go for cold approach. U will certainly learn from mistakes but remember that human interactions are so complex u cannot put a set of rules on them. There was a recent thread where the guy mentioned all his failures. I was delighted to read it. Go find it and good luck !

Title	Got rejected last night, would highly recommend it
Author	GET_HYPE_4_LYFE
Upvotes	44
Comments	21
Date	November 2, 2016 5:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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