I have read all there is to read about game. (well, not 'all', but 9 books)

I have taken all of the 'inner game' steps in terms of going to the gym, getting more hobbies, meditation etc

I have put in the actual practice out in the field and made rather a lot of approaches now. I'd estimate around 600 approaches. On some nights I might make 30. Other nights, just 4. Approaches can range from 2 seconds (instant rejection) to 15 minute conversations.

I try to implement all of the 'techniques' that game advocates ; I try to tease, show confidence, use 'push/pull', show interest in her as a person. I use kino and try to escalate.

But I can't seem to 'make' a girl attracted to me.

It seems to be a matter of either 'attraction' is instant (i.e - It's clear that she's somewhat interested the very second I approach her) or she's not. And if she's not, then game doesn't work.

With girls who are seemingly uninterested from the second I approach (although polite enough to not tell me to 'go away' like some girls are) I am able to engage them in conversation. Make them laugh. Show interest in their lives and tease them about things etc. I can even touch them, although any form of escalation (when it gets to the point where you are making it clear that you want to be more than just friends) is always met with rejection. ''Sorry, you're not my type'' etc

Is there some sort of technique that I've somehow managed to miss in the various pickup books I've read that I need to do in order to override the girls brain and make her attracted to me?

I've only slept with a small number of girls and i'm getting older. My hair is starting to disappear which has given me a sense of panic and urgency.

I don't tend to get matches on tinder, either which I guess suggests that i'm not the best looking guy out there.

Now, I know that the idea is that looks don't matter and it's all about game, but I get depressed when I see good looking guys who have never heard of game have girls throw themselves at them and I have to question everything I thought I knew