24 years old, haven't been on a date in 2 years

max1800b · 2017-02-20T03:48:58+00:00

What have you done on your part to try and meet new women?

chuckmeaway01 · 2017-02-20T11:53:34+00:00

Never had a date. I'm 29.

Janemba_Corvalis · 2017-02-20T05:33:42+00:00

I'm pretty sure there is a ridiculous amount of day game information on here.

saffer001 · 2017-02-20T06:58:41+00:00

I'm 28 and the last time I had a date was 3 years ago, if that makes you feel better :(

saxoriko · 2017-02-20T13:52:07+00:00

Go Out! Just go out in the evening to some bar on your own. Then approach the first girl you see in the bar. Get used to talking to girls. This is gonna be hard, it was really hard for me too, but if you push through you get really get there and that's the best feeling ever, even better as sex. Because sex is instant gratification and pushing your comfort zone and working on long steady progress is something which gives a lot of validation and self respect. Good luck man!

PDX_PUA · 2017-02-20T04:58:40+00:00

None of my family or close friends live near me, so I don't really have much of a social life outside of work.

This is no excuse to not have a social life. Go make new friends. With the internet as a resource, you shouldn't have a lack of ideas of where to meet people (not just women). You need some new friends. You need one or more new social circles. This is how adults (people not in high school or college) meet other adults.

You're right that clubs and bars are not ideal places to meet people. Depending on where you live, there are ways to meet people. If you're not comfortable going and trying something new to meet people, then you've got some self work to do.

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-02-20T19:47:02+00:00

You need to socialize more. You need to get out, find some hobbies or clubs. Even try to volunteer for events. You can always go out to a bar or club and not drink alcohol. You need to get out to meet girls.

But I also feel you may still have some Approach Anxiety issues, you may want to learn to work through them first. I don't think you really know how to OPEN a girl you know nothing about... Ask for more help on that if needed.

You are a successful college grad with a good job and an amazing future ahead of you. There is no reason a girl would not want to join you on that ride.

It's worth noting that I've never had a girlfriend and I'm a virgin, but that I've been on several dates

Ok, I will note that you have been on dates, and might know what type of girl you might be interested in. The rest is not relevant, don't bring it up to other girls...

Paulie_Walnut · 2017-02-20T13:18:20+00:00

What you need to understand is that you need to make a serious effort to go out and talk to girls, to develop that skill set in your life. Working on your self through your career and the gym is all well and good, but you will not get better at talking to girls, or talk to more girls, by doing that. You need to get out of your comfort zone and take time out of your day to meet girls. This is hard to do alone in the beginning, so you should try to find some likeminded people in your city that can be your wing men.

I know that RSD gets a lot of hate here (unsure why), but they have some of the largest communities of likeminded people. I found some great wingmen through my local RSD inner circle group, that could really push me, and my game, forward.

If you're in a city of a decent size there's definitely an RSD inner circle group there that you should go to their meetup and try to get some positive, driven people in your life who can help you improve your game.

Also, tinder is definitely not 90% robots, you probably just have shitty pictures and suck at text game. Try to improve that as well, get some professional looking pictures taken, and read reliable sources online about what a good tinder profile should look like.

IntrovertedBadass · 2017-02-20T19:32:31+00:00

Hi there, I really feel your pain. It would be practically impossible to help you by writing a comment on this. But, if you want to learn how to get dates quickly, without having a big social circle, you might want to learn about daytime dating (also called day game). It’s what you did with that girl from Starbucks. If you want to learn how to do that more consistently and get results fast (within 3 weeks), I have a webinar that is focused on teaching you how to get dates extremely fast by compressing the learning curve. Would you like me to post the link?

GrillPenetrationUnit · 2017-02-20T19:56:46+00:00

16, never been on a date.

meowfix · 2017-02-20T05:20:48+00:00

Meetup.com

Title	24 years old, haven't been on a date in 2 years
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Date	February 20, 2017 3:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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