Can I just say "I want to fuck the shit out of you"?

marks1995 · 2017-05-26T18:23:58+00:00

Are you hot, ripped and rich? If so, it will probably work.

Snazzy_Serval · 2017-05-26T19:41:59+00:00

Not until after you've already fucked her.

For now, show her, don't tell her.

JaggedYellowPill · 2017-05-26T18:18:43+00:00

Could. But you'll probably scare her off with that. Take a more subtle approach.

2017-05-26T18:53:10+00:00

Escalate this. Start small with ambiguity and misinterpretation and escalate step for step.

Woujo · 2017-05-26T18:43:23+00:00

NO

why would you do that?

come on

wongoli · 2017-05-26T18:40:40+00:00

It can workout if you don't give off them rape sociopathic vibes xD. Like if you're not serious because we all think about fucking a random stranger, that's normal. I've seen dudes say the silliest shit anyway but they do it because it's fun so hey try it out.

trponly14 · 2017-05-26T19:14:22+00:00

I wouldn't recommend you text that if anything say it in person.

DaygameCoach · 2017-05-26T19:18:08+00:00

Do your escalation in person.

BTW, Posts about a specific girl belong in the beginner's board, /r/askseddit.

Liquorpuki · 2017-05-26T20:31:06+00:00

No, like posters below said, you shouldn't do it until after you've already fucked her and until then, you gotta learn how to communicate things like that using ambiguity/humor (AKA flirting)

Girls don't think like guys. Moment to moment, if it hasn't happened yet, they're still trying to figure out whether they wanna f you and that process involves you pushing the right buttons to trigger the right emotions. You say I wanna fuck you blatantly and factually, you're forcing her to logically make a snap decision on whether to mirror your frame (which 99% is not gonna happen unless you already f'd her) or reject your frame. So dice roll she's probably gonna reject your frame, which depending on how much she likes you = either temporary awkwardness or you're creepy/socially wierd GTFO

Learn how to communicate intent with ambiguity/humor. Ambiguity and humor creates a space where you can communicate sexual intent and take it back via plausible deniability and she can do the same if she likes you. You guys can play around in this space and escalate in it until it happens

recyclablebanthas · 2017-05-27T14:58:29+00:00

Can I just say "I want to fuck the shit out of you"?

You can. If she's more mature than a high schooler, you'll just put her off, though.

I've been dating/talking to this girl for a week now. She likes me. I just wanna text her saying I want to fuck you lol. Could that work?

Look, this is a move of desperation. If you think this would work, then you know what else would work? Actually setting up a meet. Invite her over for movie night or something.

The problem with this sort of Hail Mary move is that it's unnecessary. If it works, then you were wasting your time because she would have accepted an invite to come to your place anyway. But more likely, what something like this does, is highlight you inability to make a move or to help create a situation where actual fucking could occur.

So you want to fuck her? A lot of other guys do too. Guys on the street yell that out at her. Stand out by not being basic about it.

2017-05-26T18:21:01+00:00

You technically "can", but it would most likely not yield the expected results.

tony18215 · 2017-05-26T20:31:51+00:00

It can and I do it alot. The thing is you gotta ease your way in to it. Tell her hey cutie your such a hottie and Im glad your talking to me. Then she will be like im not hot or she will say im glad Im talking to you too. Then be like mmm you sexy af baby your lucky im trying to be a good boy cuz I like u. and she will be like what do u mean. Then say Like cuz ur so hot and I really wanna fuck the shit out of you like a beast with my big d till u are out of breath. HAHA thats what I usually do.It works alot

failatsomething · 2017-05-26T19:00:36+00:00

NO! Women aren't wired that way. You should invite her to a fun filled weekend (you pay everything), a hotel room, maybe a casino hotel, food, dancing, wine, everything. Tell her to get dressed up and pack a weekend bag with a swimsuit. This may not work though because you barely know her, but if you feel adventurous and she seems receptive she may just go for it. Don't concentrate so much on fucking, concentrate on promising her a weekend to remember.

Title	Can I just say "I want to fuck the shit out of you"?
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Date	May 26, 2017 6:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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