How important is it to actually drink when going to a bar to approach women?

gomie83 · 2017-07-18T06:35:21+00:00

Order a bud light (assume you are in the US - wish people would specify when asking for advice)..then just sip on it for the night

JuanitoNinjito · 2017-07-18T06:48:21+00:00

Absolutely not, if you don't want to drink than don't. There's a lot to be said to be that guy that doesn't need to drink because everyone else is. That shows character even.

Morokweng · 2017-07-18T08:05:54+00:00

Stop inventing problems that don't exist.

DaygameCoach · 2017-07-18T08:20:48+00:00

It isn't important to drink alcohol while approaching in a bar.

Ragondux · 2017-07-18T08:33:49+00:00

If you want to look like everybody else, you can order an alcohol-free mojito. You don't need to drink but it's useful to have something in your hand.

meh613 · 2017-07-18T09:59:49+00:00

Not at all. Although, it is polite to order something, whether it is juice or an appetizer.

Kenic_In_MD · 2017-07-18T15:44:43+00:00

Not important at all, sometimes I'm drinking water and put a little straw into it to make it look like vodka or something. Alcohol is just grease for the gears.

Live_it_up_321 · 2017-07-18T17:16:03+00:00

I find that even on nights when I don’t feel like drinking, one or two light-alcohol beverages loosen me up just enough to take my interactions to the next level.

But if one absolutely never drinks, whatever, just ask for a soda in the same type of glass in which they serve cocktails.

Xodak · 2017-07-19T15:38:26+00:00

I get what you're saying and I used to order a drink just to have a glass in my hand. But it's really just in your head. At first I felt out of place without it but now I don't care.

Tip: if it's a big deal just pick up a stray or empty bottle/glass/can at the bar

SeinoMore · 2017-07-21T00:02:16+00:00

If you don't have a drink at all you might be asked to leave. Get a tall soft drink that looks like an alcoholic drink. i.e. a whiskey and coke looks like a coke, a vodka soda looks like a soda.

Oh, and don't lie if they ask what you are drinking. Tell them the real reason.

78trombones · 2017-07-23T20:58:41+00:00

I recommend water. It's free and good for your health. But seriously, you are over thinking it. The more unattractive quality is that of having an insecurity about not fitting in, rather than the fact that you don't drink.

Title	How important is it to actually drink when going to a bar to approach women?
Author	Kakeshihayabusa221
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	July 18, 2017 6:32 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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