Guys who have game, what do you think about Tinder?

PDX_Relationshipnerd · 2017-10-11T09:54:41+00:00

Tinder/Bumble/OKC/POF/Match.... They are all garbage to anyone with game.

Who wants to sit around messaging women that are getting hundreds of emails a day already?

Who wants to fight for the limited attention of a woman that's overwhelmed by the amount of men trying their best to sleep with them?

Look at the numbers. It takes most guys about 100 messages to get a response. 1/100 to get a response. Then out of those that do reply, you're looking at about 1/10 making it to a date. Do you see how much work goes into 1 date for a guy? 1,000 messages to get a date? No thank you.

One could spend that same time out and about, enjoying life and having a much better success rate than 0.001%.

Online dating can have it's uses, but it's still not as successful as real life. Online dating assumes you know nothing about dating. They assume you're too afraid to make the first move. They sterilize the dating process and try and give those that aren't worthy of dating the same advantages as decent folk, further complicating the process and creating even more competition.

If you want to take the lazy way, go ahead and use apps. Just know that you won't be living up to the awesome potential that comes with being an expert in seduction.

ThotBubble · 2017-10-11T03:49:31+00:00

Get off the computer and get dressed and approach get off of this sub and get some real world experience

ArtOfDivine · 2017-10-11T04:36:53+00:00

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PinballWizrd · 2017-10-11T08:36:50+00:00

The bar for any kind of game on tinder is extremely low. Has a girl ever let you read through the messages they get? 90% of the messages are nothing but "hey" or "how's it going?", 9% are "want to fuck?" or a copy-pasted pick up line, And 1% are genuinely interesting conversation starters. Game on tinder isn't hard, but it is still a numbers game.

Even if you don't have game, its much easier to stand out in the real world because for every hundred messages a girl gets on tinder, she probably only gets approached by 2 or 3 guys.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2017-10-11T11:11:28+00:00

it's awful. i use to get lays on it a few years ago. now ever since i started improving at cold approach i never went back to online.

it's just really shitty, swiping tons of hot girls that you're never gonna match with anyway, getting matched with mediocre looking girls that you would never approach in real life, having to send messages and weed through the flakes just for a date, very lame.

cold approach is a lot more fun, rewarding, and allows you to go after the hot girls that you want

recyclablebanthas · 2017-10-11T14:36:46+00:00

It's a supplement at best. I've used it and had some fun.

Overall though, it can become a huge waste of time. Women often end up with flooded inboxes and dick pics. And guys are often left wondering why they never get an answer, except if they come up with some outlandish shit to say.

It all ends up taking a lot of energy to sort through all the different levels of flakes. Sometimes it can feel better to deactivate it all and focus on real world interactions.

Injoker11 · 2017-10-11T12:20:14+00:00

HAHA, nonsense. Game is a subconscious thing, most of it is body language. Internet dating is why so many guys have these chick problems nowadays. I want to smell her pheromones, not just look at a screen. It's just an extra barrier, more steps are required to lay a girl over the internet. The odds decrease because men just aren't as pretty as women. Our value is dependant on other factors that are invisible when the only means of communication you have is text.

Lambdal7 · 2017-10-11T10:27:42+00:00

It's as effective as day and night game with a lot less effort. That's all.

eat_clit_and_cry · 2017-10-11T16:10:33+00:00

I spent last year going on a lot of tinder dates and got some decent hook-ups out of it.

I deleted tinder about 3 months ago though and it has made me push myself much more to talk to girls in the real world. All those eye-contacts that one makes on a daily basis (given that you take good care of your looks and emotional state) are now chances that I jump at to initiate conversation.

The girls I am able to pick up by making a first impression in real life as opposed through text are usually more beautiful. Having the balls to talk to strangers face to face radiates confidence and low neediness. I don´t think I´ll reinstall Tinder anytime soon, I might not get laid as often, but when I do it´s always hotter girls than I got last year.

2017-10-11T16:35:53+00:00

Go to the website playingfire.com and join the Facebook group "Playing with Fire"

Tinder and other online dating sites/apps are a great pipeline if you do them right. If you do them wrong, they become blackholes of utter misery.

95% of doing it right is getting excellent pics. You should consider hiring a professional photographer for a few photoshoots of you in separate scenarios. Also, have someone take candid looking pics of you in the social events you attend in your day to day life.

2017-10-11T17:24:39+00:00

I'm not saying I have game, but based on the apps I used and the amount of dates I got/how they went, I don't think apps are great anymore. They were fantastic when I got out of a relationship and showing me how many options there were out there. But now, it just gets to be too annoying. I still use them but the quality women are all outside.

I'm not ugly and I dress well, but I think I have better results when my personality just shines through first. That's why I start calling women I match with online and stuff. It's better for me to just get a gauge of their personalities and if there is chemistry. Plus, the pressure isn't there on the first date since you already talked on the phone vs. texting all the time.

sergeant_flem · 2017-10-11T17:31:27+00:00

It’s a good avenue to meet women you wouldn’t normally meet in your everyday life, but like anything else it’s hit or miss. I met my current girlfriend on Tinder (it started as an FWB arrangement) and I know other people who also met their SOs online as well. I personally find it quite convenient to use since you can do it from just about anywhere at anytime. However, it does have somewhat logistics from meeting in real life so if you want to game on Tinder it can feel like taming a whole new beast.

Bottom line, it works for some people it doesn’t work for others, just like anything else in life.

HappyBull · 2017-10-11T03:58:03+00:00

Super great if you don’t have much time to meet people. Easy to set up dates on the whim if you connect with someone. A bit hard for me at least to match with someone with my... quirkiness?

Weather53 · 2017-10-11T04:05:04+00:00

Easy way to meet people. Obviously easier the more people think you're good looking since that's the number one reason people use it, to hook up with attractive people.

Title	Guys who have game, what do you think about Tinder?
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Date	October 11, 2017 3:28 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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