Does anyone feel like learning seduction has drained their soul?

Chichachachi · 2017-11-09T16:14:48+00:00

I don't think you really learned seduction. You learned one technique, going cold, which made you feel in control. It seems like you are very scared to lose control. This seduction stuff, for me, is all about being a better person, being more present, being able to give more. It is not about being mean or making people feel uncomfortable. That is the opposite of what you want to be doing. You want to be a happy, fun, confidant enough person that you can give positivity to people who are closed off, who aren't confident enough themselves. You want a surprlus of energy so you can take rejections gracefully. They'll feel good things about you, want to be around you, talk good about you. The way you are running your life, you are creating bad feelings all around. This stuff builds. It taints you. Reputation is real.

Also, 50 rejections is nothing. I almost don't think in terms of rejection anymore. I simply see that people are closed off or open. Sometimes they are willing to open up but sometimes my skill, mood, or charm simply isn't enough to open them up.

weallwantsomethink · 2017-11-09T06:19:31+00:00

You take rejection to personal and that is why it drains your soul.

NoloRadio · 2017-11-09T16:32:40+00:00

I think you have confused 'don't be overly reactive' with 'be an obvious sociopath'. No shit you're getting rejected.

GrandmasterM · 2017-11-09T06:16:19+00:00

No, learning seduction is the reason I can now have deep intimate connections with people. I've fallen in love, opened myself to so many new experiences, and learned to feel again because of seduction. I would describe what you're doing more so just emotional manipulation of yourself and others. In a not so healthy manner if I can add that.

rich_fletch · 2017-11-09T09:40:31+00:00

You're going down a very dark path here, my friend. You need to make a change asap.

SikhCrimsonErman · 2017-11-10T03:54:40+00:00

Fam read Levels of Energy by Frederic E. Dodson if you're into books. The link is in one of my previous comments if u need. Trust if you understand the first 30-50 pages of that book you're golden.

Also I used to feel just like you, and then I realized that was just my subjective reality. You gotta realize bruh the possibilities are endless. You can do anything. Always go into the mindset of making other people's lives happier for having met you in every situation but also always look out for yourself. You'll have much better success. Also lift.

Title	Does anyone feel like learning seduction has drained their soul?
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Date	November 9, 2017 5:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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