I found this thread written by a woman and quite frankly it's time to let go of outdated aspects of seducing a woman

Snazzy_Serval · 2018-02-27T15:03:27+00:00

Yes women want to have sex with men they are physically attracted.

Next question.

BestSC86 · 2018-02-27T20:41:18+00:00

Girls do this all the time......that is one of the big surprises to guys who haven't had much success so far with women.

Girls are more terrified of rejection than you will ever imagine so that is why they are constantly testing the waters with "signals" and "signs" that they hope will get the attention of guys who they would like to meet and maybe go out with. Only really aggressive girls are so upfront about it...most guys have some girls on a weekly\monthly basis who display at least some interest.

Where guys fuck up....is

Not noticing the signs
Not believing that the signs are for them
Not acting on the signs

and the biggest....

Getting hung up on girls who actually are not interested in them.....letting their ego cause them to chase the girls who don't notice or aren't interested in them so they end up wasting effort and time while ignoring Betty in the corner who actually WOULD LIKE like to see if dude is fun and interesting to hang you with.

AbrodolfLinkler2020 · 2018-02-27T15:22:12+00:00

Colleague*

SnapSocialGuru · 2018-02-27T17:10:06+00:00

Have you seen this book?

It’s a best seller. For almost two decades.

Surprise!

Women and men aren’t too different.

We’re all just people.

And we all want the same thing: sex, love, companionship.

Understand that powerful desire and your game will be good.

Snazzy_Serval · 2018-02-27T17:24:53+00:00

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CharacterNote · 2018-02-27T18:45:28+00:00

is this supposed to be news?

Women literally throw themselves at dudes and do al of the work if they find him exceptionally hot.

I have 2 friends who are both male model tier who i've been out with hundreds of times, and the things i've seen make you wanna kill yourself over the jealousy lol! (well, maybe not kill yourself :))

zfgee · 2018-02-28T01:48:42+00:00

This happens, but it's rare.

In my lifetime, I've probably had 10 women make it this easy for me. I'm not a very physically attractive man but in certain situations I've had VERY high social status/was king Alpha (small social subculture, and I was the shit) which is a magnet for feminine women.

Thinking back, I've had 4 variations of "I want to fuck you" - once from a woman I already knew for a few weeks, once from a woman I had just met that night and twice from women I had not even met who had seen me out socially with a crowd of people buzzing around and approaching me all night who figured there must be something about me and they wanted a piece of it and realised they had other women to compete with so they had to be very direct.

I've also been lucky enough to cross paths with a few nymphomaniacs and strippers including one who did exactly what the woman in your post suggested. I was living in a share house and a roommate had a female friend stay for a few days. I was working crazy hours (leaving before sunrise, coming home hours after sunset) and I didn't meet the friend for a few days. In that time, my rommates told her some stuff about me and my business. Well, one night she was waiting up for me wearing the tightest dress on earth. She followed me into my room and introduced herself, sat on my bed and folded her legs in front of me (making sure I saw she was not wearing underwear). I'm pretty straightforward and she wasn't very bright. I said "Nice panties". She said "I'm not wearing any". I said "That was the point".

Why am I telling you this?

Because these cases are EXTREMELY RARE.

I have been very lucky to cross paths with some women who put me on a pedestal or felt there was fierce competition or were sex-obsessed and just needed a dick and I happened to be there.

Yet for every one of these stories, I have a dozen in which the woman was equally into me but too shy or socially conditioned to approach or be direct. Some I realised and seduced, others I didn't know about until months or years later when they or their friends told me.

plowzedong · 2018-02-28T01:51:12+00:00

Ya... I'm willing to bet that most relationships in the west start because women initiate it.

Guys are pussies. Act like you have a penis and you're already ahead of the competition.

Aeon199 · 2018-02-28T01:55:46+00:00

The difference is they are highly physically attracted to those guys who are like young brad pitts, or whatever. So normal rules don't apply there. There is no anti slut defence when the girl is already attracted.

I've seen what it's like- I am like Brad Pitt to Asian girls because I'm tall and unusually pale (computer nerd + redhead genetics). So when I go to Thailand or wherever I see lots of girls staring at me. I was with a Thai girl who translated what the other girls on the bus were saying about me - yikes!

I go to a tourist site and there's a Thai milf there as a tourist, she comes up to me, she's touching me a lot, she wants to take a photo with ME instead of the statue. She's not shy about being really touchy, even though it's a conservative country.

I start an account on tinder and equivalent while I'm there. I meet girls and within 10 minutes I've got my hand around their ass leading them around, or on their inner thigh, they can't understand much English so there is no connection at all apart from eye contact and 'that look' from them, yet all I have to do is say 'hotel?' to have them furiously nod their head and give me those doe eyes and follow me to wherever I take them.

My point is when the girl is attracted there is no game needed, no connection needed, you've shortcut all the extra effort that most guys have to learn. You can do it by just becoming natural at it over time.

Game is pretty much long term faking it until you make it.

ImJustSo · 2018-02-27T17:53:31+00:00

So because a random woman wants to fuck a guy(who we know nothing about), that somehow nullifies all need to be a seductive man? Where is your argument is exactly? What about that thread suggests to you the conclusion you've come up with, that those particular aspects of seduction are outdated?

Title	I found this thread written by a woman and quite frankly it's time to let go of outdated aspects of seducing a woman
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Date	February 27, 2018 2:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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