Hey there! I need to get this out because I’m super confused with a guy. I’ll try to keep it as short as possible, but a lot has happened. Basically I want to understand if he is doing some weird PUA/The Game/Alpha techniques or wtaf is going on.

This guy, let’s call him Stud (cus he is, a solid 9/10 or even a 10/10) has been talking to me since january I think. In that period, we have texted daily. We have gone out exactly 3 times: 2 times to the fair, one time we went out for breakfast. Weirdest dates I have been invited to EVER, and im not even sure if they were dates, but we kissed. And he held my hand, and he looked at me nonstop.

But he never asked me out during the night, neither during weekdays or weekends. So I got tired. A week ago he told me that he was at a waterfall and that we should go there sometime, and I replied with “im tired of you saying we will do stuff and then not following up :(. bye boy” . after that we went cold and no contact for 2 days.

He then comments one of my instastories and asks me if i want him to keep talking to me. I tell him that of course I do, I just want to understand what he wants! I say: “do you see me as a friend? if so, then stop kissing me! and if you are attracted to me then let me know! i dont want to keep on guessing what you want or playing games, love.”

he replies that of course he is interested in me but he wants to take it slow and get to know me one step at the time. so the rest of the week he has been complimenting me and being flirtier than ever. the last text i got from him said “i want to see you”. i replied “yeah, let’s! i’m free tomorrow”

I have to add that he takes AGES to respond. he sent me that text at 8pm and I might hear again from him tomorrow at 11am for example.

i apologize for not keeping this short, but I need help here. is he interested in me for sex or for something else? wtf is up with his weird dates? why does he text me soooo much and flirts with me constantly but never asks me out (until now)? what should I be cautious about?

THANK YOU SO MUCH in advance!!!!

EDIT: im 26(F). i’d say i’m an 8/10. maybe a 8.5/10, depending on the guy’s preferences? redhead, freckled, curvy in the right places. he is 26 as well. super hot and knows it.