So I was in new york the other weekend and I went on a date with this girl to a rooftop bar. Was receiving heavy signs of interest such as me stroking her thigh and her clearly not minding, her teasing me etc.

Anyways I take her back to my hotel room and we are drinking wine and we start kissing, feeling each other up etc. etc. Then as I try to take off her shirt she backs off and is like "Omg you must think im such a slut".

To be honest I know these kind of things are common in situations like min and usually I know how to effectively respond but for this particular one I get stuck on. If I hint at saying yes, she'd feel bad and if I said no, it be the type of fodder she would use to reject having sex that night.

what I did was I kinda brushed the topic to the side by making a joke and continued kissing her, but I still couldn't make anything happen. this was a girl off tinder who came to my hotel at like 1 am so I honestly thought I had it in the bag, thus was disappointed.

Did I do something wrong? In this situation, how would some of you guys responded?