How to escalate from making out

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-22T22:49:46+00:00

If you're doing anything right she will escalate. Girls are good at this, some are very subtle,they put their head next to yours and touch cheeks (it means kiss her you idiot), or some are straightforward and they massage your junk (okay if you can't figure this out you don't deserve to get laid).

Just be calm, relaxed and when you touch a girl don't ever use fingertips! Use the flat of your hand, the whole hand when you massage and touch, it feels a lot better. Fingertips feel creepy like an alien examination. A kiss on the head or kissing her hand is nice, even a playful gnaw on her fingers or stroking her hair is good.

If she wants action she will get tired of the movie pretty quickly and want you to turn it off.

rnathani91 · 2018-04-23T03:36:28+00:00

Your struggle is coming from overthinking. If this girl is in your bed and you are making out.. why are you worried about where the laptop is? Screw the laptop.. move that shit out the way and take control of the situation.

You asked about escalating from making out.. if you start kissing her.. after awhile, kiss down to her neck. Keep going. Get close to her ear. Work your hands to her areas. Start with her chest. Do everything slowly and not rush. Don’t think. Just do it.

At this point it’s up to what you want to do. You can escalate until there is push back. If she stops you.. go back a step and slow down.

It all starts with you being the man and taking action. Go after what you want. You got this.

mikeitclassy · 2018-04-23T03:42:14+00:00

If possible, you wanna be making out on a boat. Because of the implication.

__thesandman · 2018-04-22T23:38:43+00:00

The laptop should be on a table or something, not on the bed with you haha.

Girls like to feel your body weight on top of them, so when you're making out, get on top of her.

exitthecomfortzone · 2018-04-22T23:06:49+00:00

Im a standing lover. Sitting down is my least favorite way to escalate. I would just get up, grab her hand and motion her or tell her to get up, get really close to her, wrap one arm around her waist and guide walk her to the wall. From there, your options are limitless! Kiss her while your hands are exploring all of her body, grind against her, bring both her hands over head, rub her pussy, have her squeeze your manhood, turn her around and whisper some bad shit to her ear, etc. From there, (with her facing u) if she's light enough, u can lift her to where her legs are wrapping your hips or if shes not too light just guide her towards the bed etc,, so many options. Anyway, thats just me hope it helps

Lady_Caticorn · 2018-04-23T03:54:48+00:00

I agree with others about not overthinking it. Just sit the laptop on a nearby surface so you don’t have to worry about it or move it from the bed once things start heating up. As to how to transition, if her head is against your chest, you could put your hand against her cheek/chin and tilt her face up to kiss you. As a female, I would find such a gesture to be romantic and charming.

Also, like someone else has said, if she wants to be sexual with you, she’s not going to be cool just cuddling for too long. When I’m snuggling with my partner, I find I usually will start hinting at wanting to move further. So, do your best to make your partner feel comfortable but know she’ll likely do things to let you know she’s wanting more too.

I think finding ways to caress her while snuggling is a subtle turn-on. Think about touching her hands, face, neck, waist/hips, lower back — stick to those places to tease her. I would not touch her genitals or breasts until things are starting to heat up more. Besides, it’s more fun to build some sexual tension.

Just remember to have fun with it and be natural. Even if something awkward happens, you can laugh it off and move on. Humor is such an aphrodisiac for many women. Oh! If you’re looking to go all the way, do not underestimate the importance of foreplay!! Take your time touching her, kissing her, and flirting with her to build the anticipation and get her in the mood.

mceatalot · 2018-04-23T03:37:09+00:00

After you kiss 'em, just grab 'em by the pussy. And maybe one day you'll become the next president.

In all seriousness, yiu work your hands down from the neck to the paradise. And if there is no resistance, then you're in for a show.

Dakota_Bryant · 2018-04-23T03:58:45+00:00

Idealy you guys would be comfortable with each other enough to the point that you can stop for a minute and put the laptop on the floor or go to the bedroom

Thunderfin · 2018-04-23T07:56:47+00:00

Kino.

toscano1100 · 2018-04-23T13:05:31+00:00

Caress her gently while you're watching the film. Doesn't need to be that sexual right from the start. Caressing her arm for example..might look like nothing to you but that lets tension build up naturally and helps her get comfortable with your physical touch..plus, as stated below.. it's a subtle turn-on

boneygoat · 2018-04-23T13:30:49+00:00

slowly, caringly explore where you like with your hands, she signals not some places, save for later, respectfully push bowndries and observantly remember what she likes and wants you to do.

hunterpua · 2018-04-23T16:22:38+00:00

Dude! When things get hot & heavy just put the laptop anywhere you wont break it if you guys fuck. I don't know, the floor, a night stand, a chair, whatever. She won't care about the movie if she's getting horny so just shut the laptop and put it somewhere safe.

Also, what do you mean by "jostling"? You know, you can stop kissing for a while, reposition each other so that either you're on top or she is then go back to kissing. Once you're on top of each other instead of side by side it'll be easier to progress to sex from there.

Also say she puts her head on my chest. What's a good way to progress from there?

Kiss her on the head. Just chill in that position for a few minutes. Get up to do something, I don't know, maybe go to the bathroom to wash your dick. Come back and before you get back on the bed, position her so that she has her legs open and you lie on top of her between them and start making out.

In case you don't know what to do once you're on top of her, you can dry hump. Its basically fucking with clothes on.

Title	How to escalate from making out
Author	PuntificatingPuntiff
Upvotes	41
Comments	29
Date	April 22, 2018 10:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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