Thoughts on Married Women?

lookingforapttolive · 2018-06-23T15:17:20+00:00

Moral dude. If it matters to you drop it on them that you'd like to be friends, you don't want to stir up trouble. If moral is not a big deal to you, maybe you don't care what you're getting into, it could be a one time thing. What I said about friends I meant it because you can work into their circle and probably hook up with some of their friends. Last thing, if you all are having a crazy night out and say fuck it, shit happens, oh well, another life experiment I guess. Personally, with the way I've come back to my honest sense while dating someone atm, I wouldn't do stuff like this.

WIA20XX · 2018-06-23T15:29:23+00:00

The sex is easy.
Living with yourself is easy.
The threat of a husband killing you or her is real.

But the real problem is that the girl can get attached. And often times she'll pull out her best tricks to reel you in, so you get attached.

guimafelipe · 2018-06-23T15:55:13+00:00

I would keep distance. But you the problem is them, not you. If its not you, they can easyly cheat with somebody else. But i would not want to be part of this.

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-06-23T17:46:17+00:00

Dude. Bachelorette night is anything-goes night. It doesn't count.

Strike48 · 2018-06-23T17:21:08+00:00

It's a tough call, but honestly it just depends. If she's the one making it obvious that she wants this and you find her attractive then I would personally do it. Whether it's you or another guy. She's going to find a way to get laid. Might as well enjoy yourself. Just be fully aware that it's just sex. Don't get attached to married women in any way. That's a can of worms that no one should even consider opening.

judahman8 · 2018-06-24T03:42:22+00:00

I gave up on worrying about someone else's relationship status. If the guy isn't there with them or I don't know him them he doesn't exist to me. That's on her and him not me. It sounds messed up but it's not.

I do what I want and she can do what she wants. I'm not here to make her decisions for her. If she's going to cheat on her husband then it doesn't matter if it's with me or another guy, she's going to do what she wants. If a girl starts grinding on me on the dance floor I'm not gonna say "hey is your husband OK with this? Does he know you're out?" That's really none of my fucking business. For all I know they have an open relationship. That's on them tho not me.

airjones1 · 2018-06-23T16:37:02+00:00

I just had my first hook up with a married woman about 3 weeks ago from a day game session at the mall with a friend. Her husband is in the military on leave and she was just lonely. She didn't even mention it to me when we first met and we spent about an hour talking. I went back and forth about doing it not because I cared so much about her husband but because I actually liked her and it bothered me that she only viewed me as this rental until her husband got back. If she had told me she was married during our initial interaction I would have just walked away. I just had to kind of step back after sex and distance myself from her. We got to the point we would be on the phone every day for hours at a time. I would come over and hang out with her and her roommates playing drinking games. I had never been with someone that was with someone else before but I just felt like we were way to close than we should of been. Still a good learning experience though and it was some of the best sex I ever had.

Title	Thoughts on Married Women?
Author	protespius
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	June 23, 2018 3:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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