girls are never attracted to me

forseti_ · 2018-07-17T00:03:21+00:00

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JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2018-07-16T23:37:57+00:00

Girls won't initiate conversations unless you're a good looking guy. Unfortunately it's just the way it is.

Do your friends have any success with women? If so, what do they do differently to get that success?

NewRedditNewMe1212 · 2018-07-17T17:48:29+00:00

Clean your room...
(I'm not even joking)
Come back when that's done.

Hmmkey · 2018-07-17T11:57:39+00:00

Fix your self sabotaging attitude, if i was a hot chick i wouldnt be attracted to a Guy that thinks like that

Kingtorythegreat · 2018-07-16T23:01:39+00:00

Read the sidebar material.

canarywocoalmine · 2018-07-17T00:07:49+00:00

First you need to ditch the "say kill yourself" thing. This self hating attitude is probably coming through. Next figure out what is causing that and start working on it. Little changes have huge impact, especially a lot of little changes.

Most of what makes a man attractive is in his control. To be honest, much of what makes a woman attractive is in her control. 1st, get in the best physical shape you can. Find a crossfit or some other kind of instructor led class and stick with it for 3 months. It'll blow you away.

Next, figure out a style you like and start dressing better. You can fo this with thrift, consignment or stores like the nordstroms rack at discount prices.

Get a good haircut. Go find a decent salon, find a cute girl to cut your hair and ask her to help you find a style that works.

forseti_ · 2018-07-17T09:59:00+00:00

5000 approaches and zero results?

Have you down the basics, means are you in shape and do you feel good about yourself? How do you dress? Grooming and all this stuff...

And secondly did you try different angles? When I started I was doing 10 approaches in one way, then I would go amd analyse the shit out of it and come up sith something new and try it again 10 times.

I know that might sound a bit redicules but don't see failure as something bad. Failing is always a chance to learn.

Also really important game yourself not the girl! Means if you try to manipulate girls you will fail over and over again. This leads to nothing. Instead manipulate yourself to do stuff that you wouldn't do otherwise.

Does that mean you are not enough? No of course not. You are already enough. Game only means you learn to better communicate to women who you really are so they get a chance to see your real self.

judahman8 · 2018-07-17T00:54:46+00:00

Dress better and learn some game. Ware suits and hit the gym

duckfeatherduvet · 2018-07-18T02:05:33+00:00

ok first of all, unless you're like actually a child they're women not girls. It's not picking holes in your grammar for the sake of it, but when you call women girls it suggests you're immature or you think women are immature

you seem to place a lot of self worth in whether women find you attractive... what defines you as a person outside of that? Because that's ultimately what will get them interested

Title	girls are never attracted to me
Author	hamacule2000
Upvotes	4
Comments	41
Date	July 16, 2018 11:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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