How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?

optimal981 · 2018-07-20T16:03:12+00:00

I personally don’t make out in clubs or bars. Give the girl a good kiss, then pull away before she wants to, look in her eyes with intensity and smile. Have her wanting more then invite her back to your place.

WIA20XX · 2018-07-20T16:22:57+00:00

Every time you make out with a girl, you release the sexual tension.

Delay the makeout until you get her back to your place, and in privacy you can go all the way.

SheanK8 · 2018-07-20T18:29:10+00:00

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Polaritical · 2018-07-20T23:08:04+00:00

You're probably not very good at it tbh.

I used to drunko make out with dudes. The majority were meh to downright bad. So when the night ended so did my time with them. I did more with the guys who were good at making me want more. Some of this is in more sexual teasing, some of it is just in the quality of what's being done.

My general advice to guys in general is to be less physically aggressive. Less tongue,less hands,softer touches, softer kisses. I'm gonna fuck the guy who caresses my inner thigh,I'm gonna ghost a dude who outright feels me up. Play the long con. I personally don't do one night stands so the best case scenario is I give you my number and jump your bones 2 nights from now. If you push for sex now, I'm gonna back off and not ever come back. The majority of women I know feel the same. We don't do one night stands because A) safety is a legitimate concern B) our friends aren't gonna let us go home drunk with some random because again safety C) drunk goggles are real- and bad sex for women is bad sex. Like skin crawling creepy and physically painful and scary and degrading and makes you want to take a boiling hot shower and go gay so you never have to see a penis again levels of bad. I'm down for no strings attached fucking, but not on the same night I met you. Most women who would aren't in a state where they should.

Don't try to fuck the drunk girl at the bar. Make out with her, get her turned on as fuck, exchange numbers, then fuck her the next week knowing she's been anticipating the dick all week. If you think she's not gonna still be interested once she sobers up so you wanna grab the opportunity while you Can, take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and think about what you just said.

But seriously. Just try to improve your kissing. 50% of dudes are absolute trash at it.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-07-20T17:01:58+00:00

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SheanK8 · 2018-07-20T16:24:19+00:00

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tickledpic · 2018-07-20T18:35:45+00:00

Try making her horny before making out

oharam · 2018-07-20T18:59:09+00:00

For me it’s usually logistics. If you really intend on pulling that night you better have the logistics on point. While I’m away at school the logistics are easy. Everybody lives close and has their own place. I’m living with my parents for the summer and the logistics have been significantly tougher to work out lol. That and obviously some girls will be willing to hook up on the first night but not fuck.

SheanK8 · 2018-07-20T18:28:36+00:00

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Idontlikekarmawhores · 2018-07-20T20:38:37+00:00

You aint pushing for the close enough. Kissing her, getting her number means shit. You gotta work her up enough to fuck her. If you can get makeouts at bars you can get laid too.

2018-07-20T19:40:43+00:00

Can’t manage to get laid the same night? Or can’t manage to get laid in general

b0ng00se · 2018-07-20T19:10:05+00:00

I go-to with the 'wanna fuck n' get a pizza?' (emphasis on not making the 'and' sound like part or the phrase)

then they're like uhh no, and you respond with, 'what you don't like pizza?!?'

or they leave with you and fuck pizza just go home that's what they wanted anyways.

Title	How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?
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Date	July 20, 2018 3:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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