Should you kiss on the first date?

OGthelegendaryplaya · 2018-07-22T19:36:27+00:00

Yea. I try to have sex on the first date.

no_condoments · 2018-07-22T19:19:19+00:00

Probably not. I'll have sex on the first date, but no oral until the 2nd date and no kissing until the 3rd. Keeps them guessing.

lolabc12345 · 2018-07-22T22:24:16+00:00

If it feels right, then yes. It shouldn't matter what date it's on.

ShannonAnon · 2018-07-23T00:42:23+00:00

If someone didn’t kiss me at the end of the date I would assume it was because it went horribly and they never want to see me again... I tend to be a little dramatic though.

slushie_curb_date · 2018-07-22T22:56:44+00:00

fuck no. you the prize and they better work for that shit

SailingtoPhilly · 2018-07-23T05:47:21+00:00

When you feel like you can kiss her, you coulda kissed her 5 minutes earlier. Don't overthink it. Whatever feels right is the way to go.

cocky_fish · 2018-07-22T22:01:21+00:00

I don’t, but that’s just my preference. I save that for date two, I generally like to find out if they are someone I want to get physical with, and I like to use the whole night to decide. I’m kinda picky tho and it takes the pressure off me mentally to already have it in my mind that I’m not gonna kiss her. That less pressure let’s me focus more on conversation as opposed to trying to read signs and body language, cuz I like to second guess myself there. So second date for me. I also have a high conversion rate for getting the second and third dates.

2018-07-22T21:06:01+00:00

Yes

Chamizo4 · 2018-07-22T22:09:21+00:00

Deppends on the mood.

VaporWario · 2018-07-23T06:01:04+00:00

Changes person to person. I’ve had sex on first dates, I’ve kissed on third dates, and once I kissed my date after one of the best first dates ever and she ghosted me after. Just have to feel out the situation with your date. Try to connect with them. You win some you lose some.

Conspera · 2018-07-23T02:37:25+00:00

Yes, if you find her attractive.

alal19 · 2018-07-23T04:18:15+00:00

Only if it seems like you’re both feeling it. A lot of people need more time.

Messisfoot · 2018-07-22T20:39:17+00:00

Well, if she fucks you after one date, I'd suggest you approach the topic carefully.

If not, feel free to do whatever feels right.

ieatsyou · 2018-07-23T09:02:29+00:00

It's a very situational thing, if it feels right go for it

boy_named_su · 2018-07-23T01:07:36+00:00

You definitely want at least a passionate kiss on the first date

Preferably you're pile driving her with your dick. But at least a kiss

Title	Should you kiss on the first date?
Author	CodeSkill
Upvotes	30
Comments	32
Date	July 22, 2018 7:10 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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