What's your go to first date?

bolxrex · 2018-07-26T07:45:00+00:00

Go for an activity date. Mini-golf, Dave n Busters/arcade, billiards, or bowling. Take every opportunity to make it competitive in a light-hearted and fun way. Don't take it seriously but be as cocky-funny as you can.

awakestrach · 2018-07-26T04:22:38+00:00

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djdroid · 2018-07-26T12:56:10+00:00

Coffee alone is a whole different game than in a group. Work your one on one game. Pick a coffee shop close to other activities that you know about, then you can be spontaneous and offer an activity halfway through the date.

riceoroni · 2018-07-26T12:30:23+00:00

Dude!? Taco truck or something in the park Then feed the ducks or whatever Just walking around and people watching! Cheap..Easy and it's gonna work!

Rinkinz · 2018-07-26T17:30:22+00:00

If you're meeting through a dating app I recommend a coffee date and consider having a follow up activity if you have chemistry.

If you're meeting through friends or got her number in a public setting, I recommend an evening dinner and any activity where you'll be side by side to see if she "accidentally" touches you. ;)

Edit: Don't forget to wear your best cologne!

deathcrow91 · 2018-07-26T09:08:22+00:00

First date with my girlfriend was a meal. There's a local place that's bowling and an arcade and a bar that we like too.

sadmatt1997 · 2018-07-26T22:20:05+00:00

I would do a basic coffee date and have a contingency plan. If it goes well, have something planned to do immediately after. It will come off as spontaneous (even though it isn't) and you get a better first date. If it doesn't go well or she says something you don't like, it's a low investment. My go to right now is a coffee at around 6pm and if I am feeling it I offer a spontaneous beach trip to this sand hill right off PCH. Obviously that is very situational to me, but definitely have something up your sleeve.

Hakametal · 2018-07-26T08:28:38+00:00

Bowling. You can get drinks and food, and its fun. All of my best first dates have been from going bowling.

trpsnob · 2018-07-26T10:23:58+00:00

I usually go play basketball since I really enjoy it, and the girls often enjoy the learning experience. After that go for a walk or grab some drinks or whatever.

awakestrach · 2018-07-26T11:38:57+00:00

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1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2018-07-26T16:44:24+00:00

Walk in the park, and if it goes well, get some ice cream.

Chamizo4 · 2018-07-26T17:19:02+00:00

Cinema and then Videogame center, never failed me so far.

lerule · 2018-07-26T20:52:39+00:00

Escalate on your way to random location, stop at a clean Parking Lot, move to the back seat, and finish the night there. Never fails...

crabzillax · 2018-07-26T07:37:58+00:00

Know what she's into. If she's into movies, go to the movies and pick it. If she's into arts, go to the museum or an exposition and let hier pick. Be genuinely interested. Dont fake it. If you're bored tell her and move to the last solution, a walk in a park/observational date. Dogs are a plus if you have one and at least one of you will have fun for sure haha.

RealPimp86 · 2018-07-26T15:49:23+00:00

Chuck e Cheese or Chuckie cheese, how ever its spelt. Its a great place for a date, its nostalgic, it brings backs memories, it houses an activity, oize choosing ect. But dont eat there, as an adult you will no joke be spending at least 60 bucks at chuckie cheese. Go to an art show. Ice skating, boat rowing, museum, aquarium, zoo, auction, observatory, DONT GO FUCKING HIKING FOR A FIRST DATE. Historical sites, older part of town, or you guys could try to cook together. Feed ducks, i believe most state fairs are open right now. Older clubs like swing dancing, twist clubs ect. Rodeo types of places. Go to the beach. There's more but i cant think rn.

MissingnoRareCandy · 2018-07-26T18:47:01+00:00

bar, or anything with alcohol. They dont call it a social lubricant for nothing.

clit_obliterator · 2018-07-26T07:31:26+00:00

Biking?

Luis_McLovin · 2018-07-26T03:56:17+00:00

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XDarkstarX1138 · 2018-07-26T06:25:32+00:00

Drinks at the bar.

Title	What's your go to first date?
Author	awakestrach
Upvotes	55
Comments	53
Date	July 26, 2018 3:15 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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