Did any of you guys do the online dating thing and found little to no success but found more success when you started doing day/night game?

jglover82 · 2018-08-23T05:44:13+00:00

Getting girls is easier in real life in addition to you will be attracted to everyone you approach. I am not attracted to over half the girls I meet online, also 3's think they are 7's online due to validation

2018-08-23T04:02:48+00:00

Quit all online, you're so much better off in person. It instantly sets you apart from the pack plus it's alway exciting to meet someone new. Where it's hard to know if your IM landed on an app you have an instant feedback loop in person. Remember that, and go make some new friends.

yookabanjo33 · 2018-08-23T05:22:02+00:00

Dude, online game sucks so bad.

Stick to in person. Stick to very hot girls in person. they are the easiest. The hotter, the easier (assuming you're not needy).

2018-08-23T13:52:32+00:00

Online sucks in my town unless you’re in to fat Country gun-nuts with 4 kids. And I’m not. Fitness is my only hobby, I’m not country, don’t like guns, and don’t want kids.

Neo-Auteur · 2018-08-23T06:08:39+00:00

Dude, online throws my game off completely. I've got the "model look" going for me on tinder, and I get decent matches. When it comes to gaming though, its really tough compared to in person. I feel that its a total gamble and completly depends on if the girl is board enough to stop her day, and let you game her through text.

nastyamerican · 2018-08-23T16:52:10+00:00

You’re asking the question like they’re equivalent. They are not. And the answer is a big hearty yes.

2018-08-23T03:14:33+00:00

Yes. I've never hooked up with a girl from tinder but I've used it quite a bit. Getting girls in real life is way easier for me probably cause I look young so I make up for my looks with game and social circles.

U_feel_Me · 2018-08-23T04:31:39+00:00

Although I met my current girlfriend online, I do think I had better results when I met someone in person. I was single for a few years after my last relationship and one of the problems I had with online dating was the connection when meeting lacked something. I had a lot of lays online, don’t get me wrong, and I’m not saying that my failures online were due to meeting them online (it was due to other things that I didn’t fully realize until right before I met my girlfriend), but the connection of meeting someone in person is just so much better overall. Less ghosting too.

2018-08-23T10:39:35+00:00

I’ve had such few experiences on line but for the specific reason of the few dates I went on were all very pushy and or easily aggravated, they’d become rude and aggressive (mainly because they’d try to kiss me/ initiate sex and I tell them I don’t want to on the first date), I found out later in life I’m actually just really not into fucking around and meeting a lot of people, people are cool but I wanted to pick when and where o was surrounded by them, and in an environment where it’s easier for me to read people and easier for me to make the decisions on who I talk to, in person game is much easier in my opinion

dontstopmenow1966 · 2018-08-23T12:31:50+00:00

The two things are completely different.
1 real life - you use your social skills to attract someone
2 online - you use an online persona to attract someone who is screening lots of people doing the same thing
online is going to be quite transactional - real life, more variety
also,online tends to attract people who can't cope with real life

ambiguous_juice · 2018-08-23T18:58:25+00:00

Exact opposite for me I landed a ton of dates through online dating specifically Tinder but struggled with night game

2018-09-10T15:51:11+00:00

No I have more success online. They are at your fingertips so it takes less effort and time. What I will say is I use online dating as my kinda test kitchen or practice for approaching women in real life. I reintroduced myself to dating through the apps and after several successes I felt confident enough to go it on my own. You can learn a lot about dating at a fast pace with the apps so it builds your skills.

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