I've gotten lots of matches on Tinder and Bumble however I would say about maybe 70% stop replying to me after the first couple of messages. I don't think it's a physical attraction issue because even on bumble where they have to message me first, I get matches. I try to be interesting and keep the conversation going, and not just start or reply with "hey" etc. Is this a problem with anyone else, and what would you guys recommend?