Is it okay to ask a woman why they rejected you well after the fact so you can try to better yourself?

AbsiAhmed · 2018-11-09T01:45:36+00:00

Don't ask a fish How To catch a fish, ask a fisherman.

GoodMorningWanka · 2018-11-09T02:03:45+00:00

I done this a few times and always got some generic "it's nothing you did, you're a great guy! I just didn't feel a connection.." or something.

FearsomeForehand · 2018-11-09T08:12:14+00:00

You will rarely find closure with these type of things. Better to accept that and move on.

BunnyGandhi · 2018-11-09T02:31:35+00:00

Never ask a woman for dating advice, they don't know shit.

Joan_Zeroz · 2018-11-09T04:10:01+00:00

No, because they are not awared of this, you need an eye trainned to get good feedback, otherwise they will tell you the advice you can find in any magazine

Zeroz

TheSaltiestOfHam · 2018-11-09T01:40:41+00:00

Questions like this indicate something you might not want to hear: you put women on a pedestal way too much.

They aren't some all-knowing, ethereal being. They are human. It's far more likely they were either; not in the mood, too shallow, had something else brewing, bad timing, or whatever normal yet arbitrary reason.

Stop thinking there is a checklist. Just improve yourself so you are content with who you are and the effort you put into you.

kalz44 · 2018-11-09T01:14:11+00:00

You could but chances are the info won’t help you much.

SelfLoveArmy · 2018-11-09T15:43:32+00:00

Getting feedback is very important and useful if you are able to contextualize it.

WhatsReddit123456 · 2018-12-10T23:59:45+00:00

You can ask a couple times, but once the reason becomes repetitive, it's best to stop asking. Asking a couple times is good because the reason could be something that you can actually change. I once asked a girl why and she said I had bad breath. So I started working on improving my hygiene, and grooming myself better.

Title	Is it okay to ask a woman why they rejected you well after the fact so you can try to better yourself?
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Date	November 9, 2018 1:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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