How to deal with "I have a boyfriend"

w_ppk_007 · 2018-11-09T02:19:17+00:00

It’s either a rejection or she actually has one either way it’s a rejection and one must move on or form a oneitis that will probably never be fulfilled

Wikkyd · 2018-11-09T03:51:52+00:00

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EverybodysPoop · 2018-11-09T02:07:19+00:00

Say ok and move on.

mrblackjapa · 2018-11-09T01:46:52+00:00

Yeah me too can you give me tips on blowjobs

ajoakim · 2018-11-09T04:59:14+00:00

my answer is "I am not a jealous man"

rantown · 2018-11-09T05:12:55+00:00

You're hot enough to need two! Say that and maybe she does need two boyfriends!?!

PuroPincheGains · 2018-11-09T08:46:04+00:00

Go away, she doesn't want to talk to you. Unless you're actually just cool with not fucking. That's 95% likely to be the case, it's not going anywhere and she wants you to leave.

2018-11-09T09:56:29+00:00

Just scoot out, if her shit test is I have a boyfriend is she the right type for you?

ThaBromar · 2018-11-09T01:51:43+00:00

Tell her, “I have a girlfriend”

alwaysalmostnever70 · 2018-11-09T04:59:30+00:00

It all depends on if I’m feeling super in state and like I could pull it off because I hate nothing more than delivering bad game to a girl but when I’m in a matrix level of game I love calibrating and keeping it light hearted and going for a Snapchat close or even a number but the key is to not make her feel judged for giving you her number after she makes that statement and also providing reasons of why it won’t be a big deal to keep you in mind if things don’t work out with him! Don’t attempt it in any way that does t leave her better off than when you found her!

Jacob_961 · 2018-11-09T05:16:47+00:00

If she says she has a boyfriend after you kiss, just disregard it and say everyone keeps a loyal dog around. Before kissing, you can use the same line but it's better just to leave it alone.

Trapezoidbrah · 2018-11-09T06:17:51+00:00

“You look like the kinda girl that could use 2” - Johnny Bravo

Br00dlord · 2018-11-09T08:03:17+00:00

I usually say: "So do I". And continue as normal.

If she's not giving IoI's tho, thats a sign that you should stop.

SelfLoveArmy · 2018-11-09T14:09:04+00:00

A lot of top guys will say cool I have a girlfriend and move on. There is also a good line "how long have you been together" she says X, "oh cool so you're not that serious" and move forward. I believe Saul from Australia used to use this "destroyer" line, and now I see it being used fairly regularly.

brickpicleo · 2018-11-09T20:58:14+00:00

She either

-Doesn't want to be approached

or

-Wants to be approached by a dude who wouldn't mind shagging a girl who's taken.

In the end it's your decision if that's the kinda girl you want to put up with

Little_Potato_Boy · 2018-11-09T02:43:55+00:00

For one don't try with her because if she does, you're gonna get your butt handed to you by her actual boyfriend or if she doesn't she may not be honest with you and have a tendency to lie to you, seeing as she just did. You can try making friends with them by having a regular conversation, no seduction needed really. But move on from her in a sense of looking for a mate, don't get overly attached.

shanebonanno · 2018-11-09T05:56:42+00:00

It's not a shit test. Best thing you can do here is be friendly about it and walk away.

If anything, it'll show that you're a respectful person (which girls do in fact care about), and if she actually does have a boyfriend, it's really not worth the effort and pain involved. I would advise against based on personal experience.

2018-11-09T03:58:21+00:00

Other comments pointed this out but it's either a shit test (alphas aren't supposed to care if she has a boyfriend) or a rejection (she's just not attracted to you).

Either way the work around to this is just to offer her your number as a friend. If she's attracted to you and the bf thing was just a shit test (even if she does actually have one) she'll text you. She'll also now have plausible deniability because she's texting you just as a friend, right? ;)

Joan_Zeroz · 2018-11-09T04:08:54+00:00

It Is ok (and just continue talking) if she really has a bf she wont continue talking with you.

Zeroz

notsmallatall1996 · 2018-11-09T11:22:29+00:00

well this might me "Out" of the topic but u can ask her if she have a boyfriend but "indirectly", u can ask her to go to some place but then u say,"nvm your boyfriend might get mad" or smt like that

if a girl says that she have a boyfriend in middle of a conversation, that means she thinks u are flirtin' with her.

buttgoogler · 2018-11-09T12:27:55+00:00

It's just a usual shit-test. Deal with it how you would with any other shit-test.

2018-11-09T17:12:12+00:00

Shit my line was usually “you want another one?”

Josheur · 2018-11-09T22:43:23+00:00

Most times when girls are saying that the conversation sucks already, so no problem when she says that.

Title	How to deal with "I have a boyfriend"
Author	Wikkyd
Upvotes	15
Comments	45
Date	November 9, 2018 1:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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