If a girl wants to reschedule a date but does not give a specific time, is she not interested?

ColdHardTruth2019 · 2019-03-02T18:52:55+00:00

Just simply say, “ok, let me know when you are free.” And never context her again until she contacts you.. Thats a bullshit excuse. Add her on social media, if you haven’t already and post about all the cool things you are doing, and wait for her to contact you. Don’t ask for it if you haven’t already. Add her to Snapchat, that’s the easiest one to add without asking for it.

No woman has no time. They always make it for someone. Remember that. No woman is going dateless or sexless for any extended period of time - unless she had some recent traumatic experience.

She is making time for someone. Never buy into excuses.

Always present the image that you could give a shit either way, would love to hang out, if not there are others and have a nice day.

Do not chase. Ever.

Not_My_Real_Acct_ · 2019-03-02T20:45:56+00:00

Here's what I always did to 'test' and see if they're interested:

"Hey [person name] I'm going to be doing [insert interesting thing] on Sunday. You should come along!"

When I would do this, I would get three results:

1) Some girls would give a polite rejection

2) Most girls would take the bait

3) Once in a while some girl would call me out for being a player

Basically it's hard to lose with this approach. You're basically saying "I am doing this interesting thing on Sunday. If you choose to come along, we'll have fun. If you don't, I'll still have fun."

If I wanted to be sleazy, sometimes I'd intentionally leave their name off the message, so it looked like I was blasting it out to five or six girls. That's an 'advanced' option I'd say, because that can blow up in your face. Then again, some girls are into players.

WildinCuzImYoung · 2019-03-02T18:21:05+00:00

Its a be a man in the relationship. If she says no to every possible time you propose or flakes second time she may not be interested.

confidentgirl · 2019-03-02T18:38:28+00:00

I always apologize and automatically during the apology I give a window of dates I'm available to be mindful of your schedule.

Just tell her that's fine (if it is) and ask her what days she has free If she still cant give days then say ok and keep her on the back burner.

2019-03-02T20:42:32+00:00

i would ask if she’s free on a specific day but i feel like if a girl is really interested she’d give you a freee day. i would still ask though, and based on her reaction i’d know

2019-03-02T23:18:44+00:00

Probably uninterested, or just bad at communicating. It’s midterm season 1 right now for school lol

Stevpie · 2019-03-03T02:43:36+00:00

She asked you to reschedule? Well than ASK her what day works best for her and go from there.

the_great_cholo · 2019-03-03T05:17:02+00:00

She might be legit. Just give her a day you're not busy to reschedule (a couple of days afterwards) and tell her the plan you have for the date. If she still cancels or seems uninterested, move on. It's good to give second chances, but you don't wanna play stupid chasing games.

pqowie313 · 2019-03-03T07:18:27+00:00

As a guy, this is exactly how I avoid actually having to hang out with somebody I don't want to, but that I am forced to see almost every day, and can't exactly outright tell to fuck off.

Fuzzy_Advance · 2019-03-02T18:19:53+00:00

This is a shit test and happens to me on maybe 1/3 of dates. I've tried a couple things: 1) Stick up for yourself, tell her your time is valuable, and that you'd like to go out with her and will make a good faith effort to put yourself out there, but if she cancels, you will not contact her again. Basically black mail her with "now or never" 2) Next her, no contact. 3) You think she has a legit excuse was being as courteous as possible, reschedule

Title	If a girl wants to reschedule a date but does not give a specific time, is she not interested?
Author	JavaNeenja
Upvotes	34
Comments	25
Date	March 2, 2019 6:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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