NO RESULTS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES.....

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-03-04T13:10:16+00:00

The biggest hint I can give you is that you started from the wrong place. Good job on doing approaches however the starting point for you was "inner game" you said you were depressed and not happy with your life. You gotta make moves to improve that first and feel better about your situation or actively improve it. Once you have a solid base THEN approach. Your results will improve greatly.

matejix · 2019-03-04T14:25:40+00:00

lift

Foobyx · 2019-03-04T18:41:15+00:00

fuck pick up.

Do something that fulfill you without depending of a lover for happiness.

Find a hobby, go meet people, make friends, find something you enjoy in life. Then go get gurls, none of them want to date an empty shell.

good luck

greenlittleman · 2019-03-04T16:09:26+00:00

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lonerboner123 · 2019-03-04T22:10:06+00:00

If you ask me, you're showing your intent too soon. That's the beauty of teasing and being a bit cocky, it doesn't show that you wanna get in her pants but rather makes you the prize. Any frame where you're chasing her, at least initially, may be causing this.

omda1878 · 2019-03-05T08:54:46+00:00

You might be ugly as you say bro but you need to know that men s apparence count less than women s its about being an alpha don't be needy or to nice you will get friendzoned or even worse ignored instead try to be mysterious and selfish (relatively) just be your most amazing version and treat yourself as you were the prize to win 🏆🏆

Dilpil01 · 2019-03-04T17:31:26+00:00

I think your mindset is wrong. You shouldn't need girls to bring you out of depression. You must find happiness in your life and fix your problems first. Sounds like your skills in seduction is fine, but you shouldn't be relying on other to make you happy.

How about this - stop cold approach for a bit. Try to find some good friends you like or join a sports team, music, whatever. Try out something else for a while. Come back to it when you feel self fulfilled. You might end up meeting a girl you really like through a community group.

Whilst I support cold approach, there is only so much you can do, many many girls would flake no matter what. If I was a girl, even if the guy was hot and I liked him I probably would still flake. Try to find avenues of warm approach if you want to make some more reliable connections with girls.

Strange_ghost · 2019-03-04T18:15:30+00:00

Mate I hit 300 cold approaches with little success. Join the club...

Strange_ghost · 2019-03-04T19:36:50+00:00

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Murfdigidy · 2019-03-04T14:04:36+00:00

First of all you're mentioning cold approaching which is extremely tough even for advanced seducers. you have to build the social network first that's the that's the best way to get girls, you meet friends, friends have friends and more friends. it's joining clubs, joining the gym, joining activities, stuff like that. Just get you out versus meeting a girl out at a coffee shop and just getting her number, that's really hard to do and really hard not to get flaked on. It's not personal either, meeting a stranger is extremely hard to gain enough comfort for a girl that she's willing to meet you again. This is level 100 flake zone material and it happens to the best.

As others have mentioned it's all about your inner game and confidence you're always going to get rejected, it's how you react to that rejecting that defines you. if you get all down and pissed off you're taking a personal which you should never do. you have no idea what's going on in any girl's life she might have a thousand reasons why you're not the one for her including she already has a boyfriend Etc.

Anyways I think you're on a really good path to be honest, you're down because you're not getting any solid leads/closes but keep learning and looking and I promise you results.

Start keeping a log of what seems to work and what doesn't that help me in general are there things that you can do that will help you and there's things that are hurting you if you make note of them you'll start gravitating to the ones that are working and you'll notice better results. Again you can have perfect game and a girl could still reject you, and that's not your fault, it's not anyone's fault, it's just the way it is you just have to smile and keep going

Foobyx · 2019-03-04T18:41:36+00:00

fuck pick up.

Do something that fulfill you without depending of a lover for happiness.

Find a hobby, go meet people, make friends, find something you enjoy in life. Then go get gurls, none of them want to date an empty shell.

good luck

Strange_ghost · 2019-03-04T20:09:22+00:00

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Title	NO RESULTS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES.....
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Date	March 4, 2019 1:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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