Does Money Even Matter Anymore?

MindEnabler · 2019-04-14T00:16:21+00:00

Money is like air, it's important if you don't have enough.

As soon as you have a comfortable minimum (you can easily pay the bill and buy a few extras, so lower middle class), it doesn't matter that much anymore. You'll also notice that girls coming from middle-class background don't care that much about it, as they have enough to live by themselves.

NextSpinach · 2019-04-14T00:39:21+00:00

Women, and people in general do care, but only to a point. Try getting with someone if you're unemployed and live with your parents, it would be near on impossible.

But its a sliding scale over that. If you work a job, a good job, thats usually enough for most women if you're not super rich. Also, if you are a lawyer and have a nice house, its kind of like a tall guy saying "women don't care that much about height", you only notice it when you don't have it.

My experience is it depends on her background. Women typically want the guy to be able to provide roughly the standard of living their parents provided them. If their parents are multi millionaires then you better be well off to go in her social circle, but if they're lower middle class then you just need to have a job and some money.

run_fast-eat_ass · 2019-04-14T09:19:26+00:00

It's nowhere near as important as people make out. It's usually incels who make out it's the be all and end all but it really isn't. Sure, it helps, and you can't be broke as fuck, but it's not that important.

Cyclone619y2j · 2019-04-14T00:52:56+00:00

Hardly, as long as you make as much as she does, she's going to look more at physical traits.

Height is much more important. Physique/bone structure is second to that.

GomboAndGimlee · 2019-04-14T04:05:28+00:00

I think it changes over time. In the 20s women are more into men's looks and having fun. If they want to settle down as they reach their 30s they place importance on money.

Nogoes30 · 2019-04-14T19:49:48+00:00

I’ll be honest a big motivating factor for me was always thinking I would pull some real knockouts after I was done getting where I needed to be. After years of working my ass off the irony is that ain’t happening. All it means is the mediocre girls I pull off tinder expect me to pay for their shit. Should have been working on game this whole time instead of spending 80 hours a week studying law 😂.

I do think the ancillary game benefit to having a good career and money is confidence. Like women don’t give a shit about money (though they are happy to bleed you if you let them) but they do care about confidence. Since money often equals confidence people think women care about money.

Never am intimidated by women (no matter how hot they are) when we are actually in a conversation. 8/10 have poor social skills and it’s difficult to be intimidated. My issue is the approach. I generally hate forced conversations and it comes through as if I am low energy or awkward. Totally cool with like chatting up some girl at my workout class but going up to a rando at the park makes my shit cringe. Respect for those that can though.

Hmurie · 2019-04-14T00:48:03+00:00

The only thing you're attracting with a super high paying job is gold-diggers; girls you don't want anyways.

Once you have enough to pay for the essentials it's irrelevant, Status, looks, Game > Money

WIA20XX · 2019-04-14T00:51:24+00:00

I had the same experience. If the girl is hot and under 25, money is not really a draw. Having fun with money, trips and flashy stuff is better. Real flashy Versace that can only be worn for one season is a better purchase than a London bespoke suit that can be worn for decades. Big job, big house, Benz says father not "Daddy".

26-32 when all of their friends are getting married and having babies, money becomes an issue.

The best way to use money for picking up girls is to live in the coolest neighborhood, which is usually more expensive than the average spot. Rooftop apartment with cool cafes nearby is better than a five bedroom in the burbs.

nylostandfound · 2019-04-14T15:39:01+00:00

I make 2 grand a day, does nothing for me. I started dressing nicer.

muff_marauder · 2019-04-14T05:50:49+00:00

Absolutely. You're probably not making the kind of money they're used to seeing. There's always a bigger fish and you're not it.

"First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women."

hjkshfdudsfa · 2019-04-14T10:57:03+00:00

Interestingly a year and a half of ago I was beyond broke (due to a shitty work situation in a foreign country) but I could still pull just fine.. but it lead to some pretty comical situations like girls buying ALL of my drinks for the night (before taking me home and fucking my brains out). But I suspect it did make some of my relationships rather shorter.. But also I suspect this wouldn't have worked at in my home country, as me being broke was more justifiable where I was.

Though, I'm not at all poor now and I would say girls like me a BIT more.. but they still see me as fun fuck more than relationship material so I don't know

Title	Does Money Even Matter Anymore?
Author	Nogoes30
Upvotes	4
Comments	14
Date	April 14, 2019 12:15 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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