I'm kind of "boring"

ProudRamboBSNS · 2019-05-12T11:37:42+00:00

Todd Valentine on YouTube. He runs highly introverted game. Very logical gut as well. There's a torrent of his old videos on The Pirate Bay too, worth checking out.

Dilpil01 · 2019-05-13T04:25:42+00:00

This sub likes to sugar coat things a bit, but if you think you're boring, you probably are boring.

Why should girls like you? What do you bring to the table that other guys don't? Especially when it comes to charisma or social abilities, what's your edge that makes you interesting? Think about it from their point of view, why should they choose you over the countless other guys lined up. You can be serious and still be interesting if youre projecting confidence, having a good time and being genuine.

I don't think most people are 'strong silent types' by choice. It's because they don't have the ability to be charismatic or confident out loud. People will make excuses and say they are introverted blah blah but it's just that their social skills are lacking. This is the harsh truth.

There are many ways to fix it but it generally boils down to anything that will increase your confidence and social skills. Improv classes, salsa dancing, solo travelling or solo nights out, even things like gym which will improve your confidence indirectly.

sink_flower234 · 2019-05-12T10:51:15+00:00

Being entertaining or funny is good for being a platonic friend or clown, not for sex. There’s no problem at all with being a ‘serious’ seducer. Remember when women are in bed they don’t want you juggling, telling jokes or making them laugh ... so why do you think they want you to seduce them like that?

As to how to seduce ... that’s a pretty broad question. Best bet is to pick a seduction guru that resonates with you and listen to his advice.

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-05-12T20:58:01+00:00

I think it's fine, joking around and being funny isn't really important, what's important is creating sexual tension and you don't do that by joking around. In fact, joking too much will probably hinder you because it looks like a defense mechanism to take away tension and keep things from getting too serious, which protects your ego by not ever getting to the depth where you can truly be rejected. Maybe try watching this for some ideas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDyzxa29Wd8

elolugo · 2019-05-12T16:39:17+00:00

Talk about your passions

uptimex · 2019-05-12T15:34:24+00:00

Try to play with people's emotions. Connect to them. Ask yourself a question "What does she really want?".

demilitarizdsm · 2019-05-12T11:49:07+00:00

Take an acting class at a community college. Throw on a small group communication class as well if they offer it.

Title	I'm kind of "boring"
Author	redsing92
Upvotes	31
Comments	28
Date	May 12, 2019 10:21 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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