Alright bois so this is just my own experience so take it as you will.
After long boring day of playing Apex legends and going to the gym; I ran out of swipes on tinder. The boredom was unbeliveble and I figured I try my luck talking to girls. I was told the mall would be a great place.
I got dressed in khakis, a fitted shirt from banana republic and Adidas shoes. Off I went. Once I got there I figured I have to just find a girl that's really attractive and just introduce myself.
It was hard, most of the girls were in pairs, had bf's, or moms and my anxiety was through the roof. I made up my mind that whenever I past a girl that was cute and by herself I will just go for it so I wouldn't have time to think and let my anxiety build up.
This one girl had one of the best bodies I ever seen and she was walking past me. I approached and walked with her and said "Hey, I know this is random but I think you're really cute and I was wondering if I could get your number". My voice got deeper towards the end of the sentence. She blushed and didn't make eye contact. Sadly she replied that she's there with someone else. I said "don't worry, take it as a compliment". Off I went.
I did the same thing 3 more times and two were married and one only spoke spanish. But I Enjoyed every bit of it. The rejection and anxiety made me feel human and boosted my confidence in a weird way.
Things I learned from this experience is just go for it, rejection makes us human, and even 10's get nervous. Also have a bag with you so you don't look like a creep.
Will be doing this again soon. Thanks bois for reading.
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