cold feet?

cponnor · 2019-07-22T12:16:19+00:00

Call her out on it. Of the few dates I had set up prior to learning this I had all of them cancel or postpone for one reason or another. The last one I set up a date with with she "cancelled" a half hour before, I told her she wasnt doing a very good job at proving she wasnt trouble by cancelling on me(the inside joke to start the date was she said she wasnt trouble after my opener of her looking like she could get me in trouble) but she replied with her being nervous about going out in public and was more of a stay at home person and that she did actually get ready to go out but changed her mind right before. So I told her to just come over(tell, not suggest what to do) and she said sure and yadda yadda ya the rest is history.

sinbad2011 · 2019-07-22T16:28:23+00:00

Give her space and follow up every couple days with value added (fun/funny/interesting content).

Let her be like...i need this man in my life.

You sound fun, so you're good.

j0hn1334 · 2019-07-22T14:53:32+00:00

I use FOMO- “fear of missing out.”

I share with her my plan for the evening alone and casually invite her along. When she declines it’s no longer a rejection but rather a refusal so neither of us are placed in an awkward state. Plus, if someone is interested in me then I’ll know because they’ll want to be present with me.

Another thing I do is I say “I have a gift for you”. And then I leave it to her curiosity to find out what it is or why. I don’t use it to guilt her. If she doesn’t show up that night, I just swing by wherever she is going to be (if I have permission) then give it to her the next day. Something like flowers or a gift bag with an accessory or something that strikes me as perfect for her.

Example: “Hey I am walking down by the pier tonight to catch a sunset, let me know if you want to come with. By the way I have a gift for you...”

Or

“Hey, I have a gift for you. I’ll be walking along the pier tonight to catch some photos of the sunset if you want to rendezvous around that time?”

I’ve always believed seduction is the art of making someone want you. The best way to be seductive is to actualize yourself to where you want you, first. Best wishes in your journey!

❤️

Title	cold feet?
Author	secrecypuzzle
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	July 22, 2019 12:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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