Bruhs! I'm writing this here so you won't make the same mistake İ did! I punched walls for a good hour after I realized what I've done.

I approached this cute girl at the mall (she was working there). I've taken a part time job where I approach strangers for a survey. Gives me the perfect excuse to chat up some girls, and it gives me great social warm up for the day. Anyway, she was looking at my way curiously and I said "Not exactly my type but let's go!"

I quickly dropped the survey and flirted with her for good 30 minutes(mixed with light touching) She had to go back to work so I grabbed her number. Later, I flirted with or on text (she initiated the playful banter before I even could). Then met up with her. She was really beautiful, cute and even tolerated my clumsiness with a genuine smile on her face. She was a kitten basically.

We had eaten stuff, then I led her to shore where lovers and families hangout usually. She was receptive to all my advances. But, me being the inexperienced idiot İ am didn't really escalate much further. She kept saying she was tired, even though she actually wasn't. I was like wtf. Eventually much later on in the night, I fucked the thing up (it's too embarrassing to write for me here).

Some time later I've read in a girlschase article that "İ'm tired" means... It fucking means!... "I'm too exhausted anticipating, do something already". A real head banger that one. So here it is my bros. Don't make the same mistake that I did. Escalate further and further and further. Step by step and always calmly gauge her reaction. Some girls will not actively encourage you, but just stay there and be open.

Also, bonus takeaway: the girls you've approached and set up a date will be absolutely thrilled to go out with you! They will wear their best outfits(mine wore a real short shorts with a stylish black top), will wash their bodies right before to meet with you (her hair smelled so damn nice) and will be on their best behaviours. All the more reasons to approach!

If you see some "I guess she's kinda cute" type of girls who seem into you. Don't pass them up! They might come to the date and turn into the most attractive girls of the night! Just like we men can increase our attractiveness with our clothing, vibe; so can girls! They just need to be motivated sometimes.