How do you respond when a girl cancels same day?

SithLordJediMaster · 2019-08-30T22:07:20+00:00

I'm "tired from work" all the time yet I still go to the gym anyway.

What does she do when not at work, watch Netflix all day?

I would go no contact.

tyronwind · 2019-08-30T22:28:00+00:00

Friend, it's simple. Assuming you have self respect (which you should), you'll have a low tolerance for that. Say "Ok, I'm going on my own then" and go have some fun by yourself (or even meet someone there, who fucking cares).

And for the next time, let her come after you since she is the one who cancelled. There is way too many single women in the world for you to be worrying about anyone in particular.

spfqueen · 2019-08-30T22:37:39+00:00

I’ve canceled the day of due to exhaustion, etc even when I’ve been completely infatuated with the guy. It doesn’t necessarily mean she’s not interested.

Gatsbysinthepool · 2019-08-30T23:31:40+00:00

I always line up dates in such a way where I have a backup plan or cooler things to do if my date flakes, etc. It happens. If she wants to hang out again, she will. Otherwise, live your best life. Go out and do cool shit. Hit on other women.

Whatever you do, don't say a word about how disappointed you are w her, etc.. Shrug and don't give her another thought for the weekend. Unless she reaches out.

farfar336 · 2019-08-31T03:30:07+00:00

You should not initiate texts with her anymore. You've put in effort, now it's time for her to put some effort too. If she is interested, she'll text to reschedule. If she doesn't text back after a week, move on.

KaktusJackson · 2019-08-31T15:26:35+00:00

I mean she didn‘t even think of a proper excuse. If she was down to do something, being tired as an excuse wouldn‘t even cross her mind. Maybe it is something she prefers to keep for herself. Anyways, pull back a little and DON‘T TEXT HER FIRST. Did she say anything else, like an alternative date?

Title	How do you respond when a girl cancels same day?
Author	puasd
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	August 30, 2019 10:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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