The title says it all. What mindset, reminders, etc do you guys tell yourselves to snap out of it? And if you don’t get it anymore how did that change?

My problem is that I can get girls and I know it, so surface level scarcity isn’t my issue.

Every so often there comes a girl who I have strong natural chemistry with, or sometimes I don’t even know them well and I project that trait on to them!

Personally, I tend to avoid these girls mainly because I’m recently out of a relationship and i feel like I want a something with them a bit too much for my own good.

Can’t tell if it’s real or if it’s for the chase, and I don’t trust myself to conclude that on my own.

Any tips for me ? Thanks