One of my plate's is an older (childless) woman (38 v. my 25). Great career, fit bod, nice dog and a stellar dance partner. Against conventional wisdom I am pretty pleased.

However, she sees a therapist and in the last week it's felt like doc is in bed between the two of us. My girl keeps accusing me of negging, and is using other sexual strategy jargon that is probably being fed to her. Seems like she or the therapist want me to only compliment and tell her how awesome she is and never neg.

My understanding of TRP says that is a bad idea. Besides toning down the negging, how should I proceed? How do I handle the therapist or a meddling girlfriend? Sorry for the open ended question, but I'm interested in whatever feedback ya'll have to offer.