I'm 19 years old and I have a crush on a girl at my university . We've spoken , hang out and we really do get along , but a part of me feels as if she is just stringing me along whilst she chats to other guys and whenever we text , she plays hard to get .

I'm sick of girls putting me on hold and showing a lack of interest in this regard . We can have the best IRL interaction but over the screen and through other forms , they go cold and lack what they have been showing

I realised to get pass this I have to change my mindset to not focusing on one specific girl but to have an abundance mentality . I know a lot of girls, have their numbers and have even gone out with them but there is still that one girl I want to spend most of my time with .

How can one learn to adopt an abundance mentality and not worry about whether or not a girl gets back to them or feels the same way ?

Thanks