Giving up?

Murfdigidy · 2020-03-03T01:45:26+00:00

Lol this late in life 22!?!? dude I was loserless girlless for years after that, and now can out game all my friends that were getting laid in high school and college way before I ever did. Keep self improving and stop playing the he's better Than me game. News flash if you play that game, you will always always always find someone better, richer, stronger, smarter than you. And the worst part about doing that is girls pick up on that because it's the exact OPPOSITE of confident.

#1 aphrodisiac for all women is confidence, learn it, seek it, live it

quinnmcd · 2020-03-03T01:34:51+00:00

I doubt I’ll ever have the success with women I wan

Have you ever tried?

I’ve been working very hard on lifting+diet for the past 3 years in hopes that would help. Unfortunately, nothing has changed.

that's because it seems like your problem is more mental than physical

In college, there are so many better looking and more muscular looking guys than me

this is irrelevant you shouldn't worry about other guys.

I’ve only approached maybe 15 girls, I think I want to give up trying here.

this isn't even a lot

You lack confidence and the right mindset. Giving up on women at a young age is one of the worst things you can do. Why would you want to miss out on girls who are at their peak? Muscles and all that mean nothing when you don't have confidence. Continue to approach girls and don't let the rejections bring you down. Rejections shouldn't be seen as a failure they are just part of the game. Rejections are opportunities to see that you aren't perfect and that you need to improve. Learn to love rejection and embrace them, realize that doesn't affect you or stop you from being great.

I recommend reading the book Models (Models Study Guide) this book will give you help on understanding women and show you how to present yourself as a man of high value.

Take a break from trying to approach, but don't give up entirely. Continue to work on yourself and find happiness in the things you love then. Try new things, take more risks and explore new interests. All of these things will make you more attractive/interesting and help you get the women you want.

ssdfng · 2020-03-03T01:01:27+00:00

All I can say is that you just gotta keep on trying. In the end, it really is a numbers game. Gotta keep going until you land on something

Bulkyboiii · 2020-03-03T09:33:24+00:00

Lol damn dude your head is not in a good place right now. You have to get your headspace right before you can even worry about girls. Otherwise you'll just give off bad vibes when you approach, which will lead to rejection, which will spiral you even further down.

The issue here is that your "self-improvement" is revolving around your belief that you are not good enough. You're lifting and dieting not for your own fulfillment, but to fulfill what you think others want from you. You have to reframe how you do self-improvement. Otherwise you're gonna be stuck in a rut of "I'm not as good enough" for a very long time. Do things because you think they're awesome, not because you hope other people will think they're awesome. Live an awesome life for yourself, not for others.

Also, what the fuck man 22 is young as fuck. I'm 27, didn't start picking up game till last year, and have found success. So you got a ton of time. I wish I focused more on game at your age. You have time, don't worry. Keep working on yourself, for yourself.

NightTerror6 · 2020-03-03T01:59:18+00:00

If you give up, only give up temporarily. You may need to take some time to work on other stuff.

As for the lifting thing, you are clearly doing something wrong. Doesn’t matter your body type or whatever. If you could describe your eating and lifting habits that could help us see the exact issue.

Take some time to work on yourself. Work on your game theory. Make sure to make internal changes and let the outward changes flow from them, not just put on a façade. Remember that women should not be the focus of your life, maybe just 20% while you do 80% other stuff too.

But in a general sense, never give up. Cliche as it is, most guys regardless of their height and looks can make at least some progress in the sexual market. Don’t worry about it so much, it’s ruining your form.

Good luck.

ForeskinBalloons · 2020-03-03T03:21:50+00:00

I think that this being this late in my life (22)

Are you shitting me? I’m 23 we’re still so young in the grand scheme of things. Your confidence is in the gutter right now, find some hobbies, join some clubs, keep working out and eating healthy, and do things that you enjoy. Talk to a counselor if you need to but once you boost your confidence back up the rest will come.

ResultsoverExcuses · 2020-03-03T02:24:44+00:00

So keep working hard for 3 more years in the gym...then get back to us.

ABZOLUTEZER0x_x · 2020-03-03T03:02:42+00:00

It's not how you look but how you talk. Looks DO help but ultimately it is your personality what matters. Try to be more confident and more interesting. Also, don't look needy. Join a club, go hiking, travel, go to the movies by yourself. Stuff like that make you look more s to talk about during a conversation. Hopes this help.

KaktusJackson · 2020-03-03T15:12:28+00:00

Don‘t give up. That‘s obvious. From what I can read you might want to work on your self-esteem. You try to improve all those exterior factors, instead try to take some time for yourself and ignore all the girl stuff. Only for some time, you will notice when you want to give it a go again. My advice is to read „The Power of Now“ by Eckhart Tolle. This is no Pick-up book, but it teaches you to say „fuck you“ to the voice in your head, that lets you think about and compare with the future and the past and instead live in the moment. Cheers!

Kenic_In_MD · 2020-03-03T01:22:18+00:00

Anyone can improve, everyone can learn. You are only 22 man, you are just starting your seduction journey. Also keep in mind, the older you get the higher your stock goes as a man. Keep pushing towards your dreams and goals. The only thing stopping you is you.

thenardwrangler · 2020-03-03T05:06:54+00:00

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FakeTrending · 2020-03-03T01:22:38+00:00

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Title	Giving up?
Author	habbyshouse
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Date	March 3, 2020 12:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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