Could someone please explain me eye contact

StephenDawg · 2020-06-18T11:54:43+00:00

In my experience when women look away because of disinterest it's usually obvious. In a scenario where you're already looking at her when she looks at you, most of the time she will look away. The meaning is usually conveyed in the body language - did she roll her eyes, get very physically uncomfortable, or were her reactions more subdued and did she start returning stares after reflexively looking away? You got to get better at reading body language and IOIs. Generally, if you catch her staring first that is a very good thing and she will probably continue to do it - all of this is assuming you're well put together and there isn't some caveat to consider about you.

Sexythrowaway252 · 2020-06-18T11:08:39+00:00

Eye contact could literally mean anything. Just like looking away can mean anything. It 100% depends on the person.

Looking your way constantly could mean you’re attractive. Or it could mean you’re unattractive or doing/wearing something weird. Really it just means you stand out in some way but that way can be negative just as easily as it can be positive.

There is no guide that will work for all situations. You just have to talk to them to see if they’re interested.

goldenhoneybeekiss · 2020-06-18T17:11:29+00:00

I consciously avoid eye contact with someone I don’t find attractive. It almost takes all of my effort not to look again. Bc I don’t wanna signal to them signs of interest. This happens especially when old or creepy guys stare me down. I think from body language you’ll usually see these signs of disinterest.

Prolonged eye contact definitely means I’m interested, or rather that I find the other person attractive as well.

Btw, sometimes I have these weird moments with men that pass me on the streets or so, where it seems like time stops and we’re both looking at each other for a few seconds. Usually this happens when I find a guy attractive and I’ve always interpreted it as him finding me attractive as well, creating the doubled tension and loong eye contact. Has similar happened to you guys as well?

When I look several times, I’m looking at that eye candy and you’re definitely attractive!

SMSD2020 · 2020-06-18T11:20:24+00:00

Eye contact is dangerous.

In the animal kingdom, If you are a predator, and make eye contact with your prey, they now know you’re coming.

If you are prey, and make eye contact with a predator, you can see what else is happening around you .

So, as humans, eye contact build tension. Looking away releases tension. The management of tension is important early on. If she feels too much she’s creeped out. Not enough and she doesn’t know you’re interested.

poopooguy613 · 2020-06-18T15:46:00+00:00

Go up to her and feel the vibe just Don’t be nervous or else you won’t feel it. Trust me when I say this... YOU WILL FEEL IT. it’s a vibe unlike any other. <- This is the only way to tell mi friend 😄

SMSD2020 · 2020-06-18T11:26:57+00:00

In this instance it doesn’t matter. You get to choose who you talk to, not the other way around. If your requirement to open with someone is, “they are interested “ then you are letting others choose who you y’all to.

If you want to open, do it. Even if she’s never made eye contact with you.

Snoo91270 · 2020-06-18T16:49:39+00:00

Prolonged eye contact several times not just once is a good sign.

5yn3rgy · 2020-06-18T22:05:06+00:00

Eye contact isn't just a sign of sexual interest. It's also something people do to show that they're paying attention to the person they're talking to. It's hard to tell if she likes you or not from eye contact alone. Both her holding eye contact and looking away could mean that she likes you. If she looks away, she could be shy but still be interested in you. She might also be anxious which would make her look away as well.

Eye contact can be a cultural thing as well. Westerners see people who hold eye contact as confident (as long as it's not the creepy kind). Asian cultures, on the other hand, view eye contact as disrespectful.

So anyway, my point is that you can't base your opinion of whether she's into you or not based on eye contact alone. You'd want to look at the other body language as well and pay attention to how she interacts with you.

Edit: not*

yourmajestythegreat8 · 2020-06-19T00:00:30+00:00

In my opinion, the eye contact convey a vibe, and this vibe show your level in Game. So you want, by the eye contact, convey a relaxed vibe. If you’re just getting into having a good eye contact, you’ll be able to keep it up with everyone, but the VIBE that you’ll convey will be like anxious, it’s like you’re trying with all your power to keep it up.

When I first began to practice it, I would get a lot of “you have very piercing eyes” and things like that. That was good because I know my eye contact was improving. But now, I girls tell me things like “you have BEAUTIFUL eyes”. I never used to get that before. In fact, the eye is, I think, the only part in your body that never change. But the vibe that she as when she look me in this eyes is so great, she BACKWARD RATIONALIZE IT and tell me that I have nice eye. It’s all about the vibeee.

Also, eye contact is like a game in itself. You wanna be a little better at it with the person you’re interacting with, but not like 2 levels better.

Finally, a great exercise that helped me with that aspect was when was walking in the street, I looked EVERYBODY in their eyes, and never break the eye contact. Habitually, they will nervously look away. If the person that you’re looking in the eyes keep looking at you, just nod with your head and smile. DO NOT DO THAT WITH GANG MEMBERS THO. I am not responsible with anyone’s life. 😂😂

Shoutout to Coach Kyle.

pgken · 2020-06-19T04:05:26+00:00

Girls tend to look in a much more subtle way than guys. They literally try to sneak glances. If they maintain eye contact, that is a big deal and probably indicates interest

ImmodestPolitician · 2020-06-19T17:38:44+00:00

I've had many people tell me I'm attractive. I do well in social situations. I've had friends tell me that women are staring at me but I never see it.

I've never experienced the "Long Eye Contact" in the movies in a public place from a stranger. Maybe once or twice.

When on the street, I get a lot of quick eye contact with lip presses or quickly looking down and away.

I get wolf whistles from gay guys so that's flattering.

Ultimately, if you are interested you should just approach. That's where the rubber meets the road.

Derk_cone · 2020-06-18T17:37:19+00:00

Don't read into it like it's a mystery. You're a dude right? If you see a hot chick, you look at her. If she looks back and you lock eyes and maintain it, go for it. It's a simple thing of attraction

revente · 2020-06-18T19:44:33+00:00

Look at her eyes longer than she looks at yours. This way you show you can withhold pressure longer than her. Don't overthink the other shit. Approach when you are interested, don't waste times looking for cues.

yeeeewhawwwww91 · 2020-06-18T20:00:29+00:00

It’s where you look at someone and they look at you back.

relentless_pma · 2020-06-18T21:24:01+00:00

Kinda sucks to read about eye contact because I like never see it (or maybe I never have it). Either way not good.

relyingonhisstrength · 2020-06-18T22:17:18+00:00

Not every girl is the same everyone is conditioned differently just examine the context of the situation even if it’s a girl you just seen for the first time, and use your intuition. That’s your spiritual senses, you can’t use rationality for everything. Both are designed in you so use both.

sloanpal144 · 2020-06-19T01:50:25+00:00

Lol so easy. If the both of you are talking she will keep a strong gaze but at any other time she will try to avoid eye contact because she's too nervous. People that like each other get nervous around eachother. People who don't are usually pretty comfortable around each other.

anonymus08-03 · 2020-06-20T01:42:37+00:00

The answer is very easy. If she seems to be distracted but always looks at you as soon as you do something she is interested but wants to avoid showing it.

If on the other hand she looks at you while you do nothing she is most likely just pretending.

So to find out what is going on all you have to do is bring another female into play. If she all of a sudden gets very alert she is into you, if she shrugs it off, be realistic and accept she maximum sees you in the friend zone.

Title	Could someone please explain me eye contact
Author	lolopolo999
Upvotes	12
Comments	41
Date	June 18, 2020 10:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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