How's your experience with approaching older girls(say 6-7 years older )

charlieawayy · 2020-03-14T19:05:55+00:00

I tend to go for the girls 7-8 years younger than me (like 18 year olds) but they tend to be VERY superficial and also anxious with talking face to face with strangers (grew up on social media) which makes cold approach almost impossible which sucks lol (I still get the occasional one, though)

But the ones who are 6-7 years older are usually much easier for me. They seem to value fun and charisma etc as opposed to just a handsome face. Also they are less weirded out when talking to a stranger which makes it a lot easier to hook etc.

Joel504 · 2020-03-14T18:49:35+00:00

Depends on their maturity level. Im 20 who was talking to a 26 year old and im more mature than she is. And thank god i dodged that bullet

Daytripsinsidecars · 2020-03-14T18:54:23+00:00

It depends on your age.

I’m 29. A 23 year old man is too young for me IMO. They just will not want the same things in life. Also they remind me of my students.

If you’re 50, then no one is going to care.

getyourlifeplease · 2020-03-15T00:31:15+00:00

I have had sex with a younger guy (I'm 29 and he is 22) and he is sweet and all, great sexually, BUT...past that I would not consider dating him. Why??? Because he and I are very diff: (Me) college educated, FT professional career, my own home, friends, travel, etc. (Him) still deciding whether he even wants to go back to school after he quit, works PT at a grocery store, lives with his parents at home, not much of a social life. Again, he is a sweetheart, and very very attractive, a true genuine guy - but in no way relationship/dating material for me...

So yes, it is possible for older women to give a younger guy a chance, BUT the reason behind it is what matters. Plus my life goals dont align with his...so if we met under diff circumstances, I'd never have bothered with him.

smoothmax · 2020-03-14T20:07:12+00:00

Girls of any age tend to fall in with (believe) the frame of a guy ... but only if he holds the frame with 100% conviction. If you're approaching these older women with ANY niggling doubts about the age difference then you're toast. She will pick up on your doubts and echo them to herself. She'll start to think ... "my roommates will laugh at me", "he's probably immature" and make other excuses.

If you're totally convinced, "this is cool we can really get it on together" and there isn't a shred of doubt in your mind, the woman is far less likely to even notice the age difference let alone start thinking of objections.

choibom6428 · 2020-03-31T14:12:43+00:00

Well, my partner and I have an almost 4 year age gap, me being the older one. I am in my mid twenties now. Tbh it took months of him pursuing me for me to finally give him a chance. We were friends before he asked me if I would be his girlfriend. The age thing made me nervous and I initially rejected him but with time I fell for him too and we’ve been together for 4 years now. So I’d say just be a good, close friend and get to know her before you come on to her. Or in my situation he told me how he felt and I rejected him initially, and he respected that but we still hung out as friends and he would take me to places and we talked a lot and when the time was right I finally told him I liked him too and then we been together ever since. Just take your time cuz most older women aren’t just looking for flings, at least I wasn’t. I even told him to fuck around with girls his age before deciding he wanted to commit to me. But he kept his focus on me, and seemed to go out of his way to spend time with me. Eventually I just fell in love with his personality and sweetness and well yeah... then we started dating and anyways I wish you good luck! You are more likely to have better luck if she is also a friend of yours for at least a year or so. Him and I were close friends and hung out often. The age thing doesn’t really bother me now, especially since people don’t really notice or assume we are around the same age anyway

Title	How's your experience with approaching older girls(say 6-7 years older )
Author	lolopolo999
Upvotes	8
Comments	18
Date	March 14, 2020 6:42 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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