The more attractive the girl, the less she’ll care about how attractive you are

2020-07-11T23:10:37+00:00

So what you are saying is I don’t have to be nervous when taking to attractive women?!?

PM_ME_FAT_DAD_BELLYS · 2020-07-12T11:11:53+00:00

Attractive man here. Bi, but nonetheless.

I resent how much people downplay how awesome the other parts of me that I worked really hard on because I'm "pretty". That's why your looks mean so little to me.

Martymartini · 2020-07-11T23:31:39+00:00

I’m not saying a disagree. Because sure you could be right. But I have never based how attractive my partner is against myself to validate my own self confidence. Also I can guarantee the hottest person in the world is still going to see plenty wrong when they look at themselves in the mirror some days.

hartlylove · 2020-07-13T20:14:24+00:00

This guy has cracked the code. You get it.

BurnItDownSR · 2020-07-11T22:32:10+00:00

Hey OP, just know that seeing nasayers who don't have a good argument against your point is a good thing.

It'll show you how many guys you don't have to compete with because those guys just won't try with the hottest of the hot.

But you OP, you should go for them.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-07-11T22:24:20+00:00

Then you wake up!

100hourslave · 2020-07-11T22:20:53+00:00

Nah.

Queen-of-meme · 2020-07-12T05:13:11+00:00

As an crazy attractive woman (according to how men always have behaved around me my whole life) And If I might say I think I'm beautiful too I'm lucky with my genes. You have figured it out.

Or should I say. You have figured girls like me out.

My story is. I got bullied by the "hot guys" as younger and so, to me shallowness didn't do anything for the attraction part unless the guy was nice funny and sweet. My first boyfriend who was super hot was just an abusive cheating shit head. These experiences taught me that attraction comes from how a man behaves.

I'm a very unusual species of attractive.

Most attractive women today, are just a glittery shell with nothing inside. And they thirst for constant validation because even if they hear constantly how hot/cute/sexy /beautiful /gorgeous /attractive they are, it's never enough.

They have no sense of self worth inside. So these hot women will wanna be with hot tall men, to look like a hot classic Instagram perfect couple to feel like they are worth something. And love for this shallow validation through our the rest of their life's if they don't develop a better self - core. (Anf same with hot men) Most hot people become super egocentric assholes. And everyone who just needs their beautiful shell will look past that and want them anyways.

I have a boyfriend of two years. In my eyes he's the most attractive man I've ever met. He makes me feel things I never knew existed. Crazy attracted to him like I'm some 14 year old with my first crush.

And he is average I believe. Because he's 169 cm in length, and shaved head, he's not at all the typical looking Instagram guy he's more like, the hot criminal. But he have had other girlfriends and hook ups etc so appearantly I'm not the only one who sees him as attractive. He says to me most girls don't look his way because of his short length. And I said "I don't care what other girls think about you, to me you're the most attractive man ever" and it's our connection + values + lifestyle + his scent + his healthy looking body and of course that smile, that makes me think that way. His hot body and pretty smile wouldn't mean anything without the rest.

starfire_xes · 2020-07-12T00:32:51+00:00

If you know what a woman wants, let me know.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2020-07-12T00:49:53+00:00

No. It's like the often used point in the looks debate about the ugly looking guy with the hot looking partner. It happens, but it's an extreme rarity.

TheQuantumNet · 2020-07-12T05:32:30+00:00

Hot is subjective in many ways first of all. I've actually heard more conventionally attractive women are more shallow. So it depends on what stereotype you wanna believe.

relentless_pma · 2020-07-12T18:18:49+00:00

Could be true. Altough I guess there must be some kind of 'attractiveness' minimum you need to be. if she is not attracted to you at all it is going to be very hard.

manonpoint_com · 2020-07-14T00:22:55+00:00

I disagree with this. More attractive girls have more options so they can be pickier and they will pursue higher value men. That doesn't necessarily mean looks, but they might as well go for looks. And really hot girls who have guys hit on them all the time, they won't even give you a chance unless you are good looking, because they have plenty of good looking guys hit on them so why bother with a non good looking one. There are ways around it (indirect opener, demonstrating value in other ways, etc.), but it is a myth that hot girls as easy to get as girls who are not that hot and that hot girls care less about looks. Hot girls care more about looks than girls who are not as hot--hot girls care more about EVERYTHING than girls who are not as hot, because they can.

GrandMasterB19 · 2020-07-12T00:24:02+00:00

The real dating problem that most men have is low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, discomfort with their own sexuality and masculinity, and a lack of understanding of women's behavior and expressions.

I've been really surprised by some of the girls that have shown interest in me before. A lot of attractive women already had stunning boys when they were young and it's played out for them. They're more impressed by a man that owns himself and makes her feel like a woman.

Title	The more attractive the girl, the less she’ll care about how attractive you are
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Upvotes	20
Comments	51
Date	July 11, 2020 10:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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