When girls get to know me they often fall for me...but how can I capitalize on this when meeting new people?

staier · 2021-02-04T10:27:17+00:00

Try to socialize .Dance classes and yoga classes are plenty of pretty girls to talk to.(pandemic or not you cannot get laid if there are no women around )

Pretty girls are still human beings , and seriously just drop the importance of the pretty girl.Start talking casually , every day . It is just a talk, do not try to put hopes, desires etc . There is 4 billion women on the earth , not this one , so there are plenty of others.Polarize sooner - if she does not like you she just misses a chance to know you better.That is it .

wallynext · 2021-02-04T09:04:54+00:00

The problem I see here is that you want what tou dont have... why do you need to get instant results with girls in bars?you already have something far more valuable. dude you just admitted that when you try to seduce them they run away, than stop trying and be yourself, thats why they catch feelings, you are the perfect example that seduction and trying to do tricks and pretending to be someone else is worse than just being your true self. It just so happens that you havent found someone with whom you feel the same

Gh3tt0-Sn4k3 · 2021-02-04T14:05:38+00:00

wait, but what kind of advice shall we give you? you seem to be full of confidence already. Seems like you only need to find somebody you like, but that's the hardest part my friend, for everybody.

Method_Rude · 2021-02-04T08:52:03+00:00

I wish I had this problem, lmao

ImJustSo · 2021-02-04T12:52:33+00:00

You don't talk to enough girls, bucko.

El0vution · 2021-02-04T10:53:14+00:00

Treat the girls you like, like the girls you don’t like. With Indifference. That’s how I snagged my current girl.

STD_Tyler · 2021-02-04T16:48:56+00:00

To find a good long term relationship, you will have to date and sleep with lots of girls. And this will require talking to tons, either with cold approach or dating apps.

It is not like one day you will magically meet "The one", without 100s of failures.

Opalescent25 · 2021-02-04T13:05:22+00:00

What happened with the last girl you found attractive? Maybe you treat them differently than ones you don't? Put too much pressure/text too much?

ReasonableWealth · 2021-02-04T15:56:51+00:00

Know the attributes that the girls are falling for, and then display them a little sooner in your interactions with new people

Clariecefun · 2021-02-05T00:16:05+00:00

You may be acting needy around girls you like. Girls you don’t like, like you back because you aren’t being needy.

Alien_Hunter101 · 2021-02-05T13:30:27+00:00

If I was 6'5", I wouldn't be on this sub. Lol

MyName_isLame · 2021-02-05T22:26:40+00:00

Sorry if I’m late on this thread but how old are you? Bar game comes with age, that’s why you always see the older dudes with the most chicks. If you’re in your 20s you need to take more classes, get out more and practice your verbal skills. You win some you lose some. Also how’s your friend circle? Maybe you need to broaden that as well. Make new friends. Groups with men and women. A whole variety; single friends, married friends, friends in relationships, because those friends may have single friends! That’s the best way for you to meet women, through your friends. It’s a safe place, you already have friends in common so there’s a conversation piece right there, and she will most likely fee comfortable with you off the jump.

Title	When girls get to know me they often fall for me...but how can I capitalize on this when meeting new people?
Author	StaticNocturne
Upvotes	19
Comments	39
Date	February 4, 2021 6:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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