Since moving forward with our divorce, I've never felt better mentally, physically and socially. Everyday feels new and different now. Speaking to new people has provided a real sense of freedom. My finances have drastically improved, down in my weight, the house stays clean (lol) and speaking to new women has been fun as well. I guess when you cut the daily routine and the constant vibe checking life becomes more enjoyable! All that to say, it isnt always bad.