I feel like if someone was truly attractive, they’d get approached in person but what does it mean if they never do? For example, I get told that guys look at me but they never actually do anything about it, I’m told I’m attractive and I’m learning to like myself more but I can’t help but feel like if I really was hot shit I would always be in a relationship or actively approached by guys. But I’m not, only on the apps and I’m already in my thirties