Ok I know the title is kinda wild but hear me out.So in these past two weeks, I found out I was being cheated on by my girlfriend for 1 year and a half(we had been talking for 2 years in total) on the day of our anniversary. Now let me give you guys the rundown.

I started out joining this subreddit like 3-4 years back and I was tired of being a virgin, not having women talk to me, and feeling like a social outcast because I had a terrible stutter(also I'm a First generation Nigerian, and had a thick accent and I was always made up of it) so I wasn't really able to communicate well with other people, especially the other gender. So enough was enough and I started to lock in. I saw HealthCliff post on how he did it following his footsteps.

I started out as a 3-4 but now I'm a 7 if a girl sees my car I'm an 8-9 to some of these women. I was 160 and did a bulk all the way up to 215 I'm 200 right now. I went from a starving African child to being called big by everyone I know. I also watched Hamza and did aesthetic body workouts 5-7 days a week every week. I dressed better found my style, groomed myself way better, and the way I talked to women changed for the better. In 1 year after my 18-year drought, I had slept with 8 women. I thought I was the man I was getting pulled up on by good-looking girls like 3-5 a week more times were just girls staring at me even if their boyfriend was right there and even if they had a wedding ring on. That shit is disgusting but at the time I couldn't of been happier.

Then after a while, I found my ex I've seen her since middle school she was a beautiful light skin chick(6). As I said before we talked for probably like a month I was hitting it I didn't know whether to take her serious or treat her like FWB but I felt like she gave me the quality to make her seem like she was the one. She would cook for me, pay for certain things always try to contribute, be a caring person. So I thought she could be the one but I was wrong.

2-3 Months In the relationship she was talking about going on a GIRLS TRIP with her friends this was a crimson red flag to me. If your girl goes on girl's trips I don't care what you say bro if she can cheat on you she will its super fucked up,I bet she'll say "Just because Im going on a girls trip doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on you" or "Im really stressed out and need this trip me and my friends were already planning to go" or "My other family and friends wanted to go on a girls trip so did I". It was going to be in Miami over the summer for the week she said she would call me every day." Your going to have my location so your going to know where I am, etc". This story didn't end with a girl's trip but this is to guys who have a gf who wants to go on a girl's trip cut them off immediately. Thankfully I had to keep talking and talking to her and she agreed not to go on the trip.

(its bout to get real good). A while passed we had are highs and lows in the relationship. But I thought their was nothing wrong and thought I can trust this person and I want to be with this person for the rest of my life. I would always think of things I could do better for her and us as a whole. though our relationship I swore I showed her the best of both worlds I tried to be loving and caring and told her I appreciated her and complimented her when I felt like she deserved it. I also would be a loving asshole to her and be the type to be aggressive when we are being sexual like calling her all types of things spitting in her mouth,choking,pulling,(Its personally but some 50 shades of gray type shit), and Im a 8.3inches on max so Im putting in work.Sorry to get so detailed. She would always say I love you, I'd never even imagine of cheating on you,I want to start a family with you,etc. Shes said all those things to me in different ways 1000's of different times and I always thought that she meant it. And I started thinking to myself that the redpill might be wrong about just this one person that I finally found a good girl after all these years who I could be happy with and start a family with.

Then I found out for the last 6 months she was cheating on me with her coworker.She left her tablet over here and im thinking to myself "Ive check her phone and stuff before there's nothing on it I just wanna check one last time to make sure". It was another guy talking to her telling her to suck his dick and to have her ass ready for him tmrw at school then I scroll up more and more and more and just started balling my fucking eyes out. I thought to myself she works in an elementary school there's no way this can happen. She's literally with me a decent amount of and I have her location there's no way she's been doing this to me.

After Ive took care of her when she was sick.After I was always there for her and I tried to do the best I can for this relationship to workout, After all the thing we've said to each other and the future we had you threw it all away for a man that never cared about you in the first place. This isn't the first time this has happened but this was the most intense because I never loved and never tried for someone else like that before. Women just don't give a fuck.

I will never date an American seriously ever again after that experience. For guys over here who are still trying to find relationships and love in a Western country, I'll ask you what's in it for you. The chick who I was with had 4-5 bodies before me(asking those who have known her) and that's as low as I could find and this still happens.

Possibilities of dating American women

Let's say you find a girl with a low body count she'll still cheat on you. I honest to god think only less than 5% of women are loyal in America. Or you find a girl here, think she's good-looking and she'll have bodies on bodies. Or You'll find someone and she'll be all independent talk shit and give you bullshit. Or You find someone and they already have a child by a man who doesn't care about her and she'll try to get you to take care of HER child. Or you struck gold you found a girl whose wifey material, wife her she divorces you and takes half your shit and the kids. Or you find a girl and you find out she secretly sells her body online to random strangers for 5 bucks a pop. Or she cOlleGe Educated and she was getting bent over in all types of ways in her college years and thinks your a great guy to be with and she wants to have a family with you.

I could try to go on and on but with dealing with western girls there's just too much bullshit to deal with now and if I have the choice to deal with a girl over here who has hella bodies, doesn't value men, and who live in a system where even if they do everything wrong and break there vows in marriages they are rewarded. I would rather deal with a chick from a different culture who values men who might have bodies but damn well less than the people other here. Who also might be a good digger but it's not like the ones over here aren't. And someone who will at least show respect to a man and at least do the bare fucking minimum shit to show that they care in a relationship instead of complaining about every little fucking thing like they do in the West.

Still get swole and make money to be able to be in the top 10-20% of men it's not as hard as people think to get into that group as men you just have to put in the work the time will pass anyways. But I would advise you to not take these woman seriously or find out the hard way like I did. I genuinely wanted to start a family and everything just for that to happen. Im good now I was just clapping a girl yesterday but at the same time, that situation was pretty fucked up. If you have a girl right now I'm praying that you can find happiness but don't be shocked if what happened to me happens to you.

I would never wish something like this even on my worse enemy. But it is what it is keep pushing and getting better every day.Thank you for listening to my ted talk sorry it was so long and I'm not perfect different situations happen to different people this was just mine.

Also, dm me personally if you want to see the text I saw with her and her coworker shits kinda brutal.

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