Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?

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Rob775533 · 2024-04-16T20:10:56+00:00

Casual sex with a woman who's got mental health problems.

That's definitely the best foundation for a stable relationship. 😂😂😂

Seriously though, some women will just have sex with people regardless of whether they like them personally. That's probably what was happening here. Some people think they have mental problems. Some people think they're just super horny. Who knows?

You should also bear in mind, while almost all women could have a different dick every day for the rest of their lives, most of them don't want that. They want to form a strong bond with one man, and enjoy their time with him.

Try to accept this as a door closing, and keep on moving. Plus, you're doing way better than most guys if you can get an FWB situation going, so you're going to be fine.

egpayne93 · 2024-04-16T21:02:34+00:00

You prioritized her and she became your only option. She could feel it and started fucking other people. You’re getting jealous because now you feel like it was a a waste of time. See you in the gym brother

bas4784 · 2024-04-16T20:26:29+00:00

Just because a woman is very affectionate with you and attracted to you doesn't mean she cares about you or is "heels over head " for you, as you put it.

ClitPlayaBootySlappa · 2024-04-16T19:59:30+00:00

You agreed to be fwb. Why would you care if she's hooking up with other guys?

atomant88 · 2024-04-16T21:14:09+00:00

Nah most of those guys are trash

It's so easy to be better

Women really appreciate quality over quantity. Because they're constantly barraged by trash men

Just a little effort goes a long way. All the trash men out there actually make pickup easier for the rest of us (in that sense anyways)

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-04-16T20:54:09+00:00

Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?

It is you .

So,long story short,I met a woman through an app in February.

Aaaaaa well there is what I expected to see . What did you expect .

Just be FWB for a while

What relationship ?

FWB , fuck buddy or any modern term is not a relationship .

You are either dating or not dating . And you guys weren’t dating .

meeting was very inmature.

You mean the f buddy that is constantly pushing for something and expects constant attention is Mature . But the woman that moved on from just sex is not mature .

a lie:

What do you care ?

Hell she shouldn’t even have to explain herself .

In my experience, when a woman goes from 100 to 0 with you and even dissapears,it means that she just meet another guy and lost interest in you, or just has you "in reserve" in case she gets bored of the new guy or something.

You remind me of my neighbour - I don’t feel like having sex and this shit happens .

The only difference is I’m not nice about it .

YOU GUYS ARE NOT DATING - she likes talking to you and sex is from fine to ok , but she doesn’t want to date you . Stop acting like you two are married .

even a woman that was so heels over head for me

She told you she is not - where the fuck did you get that she is head over heels in love with you .

Here you words :

I was ok with taking it slowly and just be FWB for a while until she felt prepared,

This is literary man speak for “I don’t want to date YOU “

can just replace me that easily just because I wasnt able to meet one week,

Because your whole point to her is a dick she can ride . And guess what everybody else has a dick too.

how can me or any man be confident in meeting a women and trust that she will maintain the interest and dont treat you like a temporal toy,

Good question : By meeting her in real life - make sure she is a functioning person (also know as vetting )and going on dates for a while to BUIL an emotional connection (you know the thing that makes you different from everybody else ) . Probably wait a bit before sex (she won’t tolerate the waiting IF she doesn’t want to date you )

I can’t believe I actually have to give this advice to a dude . Where did society go wrong ?

if they are always just some clicks apart from being able to meet like 10 guys that probably are better than you in something?

I will say this for the millionth time - HOT women on dating apps are undatable . Hell the ugly ones aren’t too (but at least they have an excuse to be there )

Here a lesson I learned the hard way : IF you can turn her on and she still makes you wait she is datable.

I know an answer will be "maybe you just did something wrong/is something wrong with you",

No YOU WERE NOT DATING for you to do something wrong . You were a toy - either play your part or fuck off .

but in that case,how can I improve it if I never receive any feedback due to ghosting?

Yes you are obviously a good kid - try dating in Real life if you don’t - the few bad women will make you think they all suck .

If you want a quick lay - the apps are ok - but never think you are something more than a toy to those people . (There might be an exception but at least try to divorce feelings from those women until they prove they want more )

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-16T21:31:19+00:00

Bro, you are desperate, needy, emotional. The exact opposite of attractive alpha male.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2024-04-16T22:28:52+00:00

My answer to the title: yes.

But in your specific case seems that the problems are others. That girl is just not stable. You don't want a relationship with someone like that. She did you a favor. It sucks, but it is how it is. On to the next one hoping she is better

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-04-16T21:05:26+00:00

So,long story short,I met a woman through an app

And there in lies the root of the problem. Women who are actively on apps are victims to the paradox of choice, they have so many options they can't choose one.

Luckily only a minority of women are actively on dating apps so if you meet women via other avenues there's more chance they'll be keepers.

MentalCelOmega · 2024-04-16T20:22:45+00:00

You are absolutely not wrong. It is so much harder now to find a relationship due to social media, the economy, and the government.

seducedyourmom · 2024-04-16T20:25:53+00:00

My problem is women always want to be in a relationship with me. Even though I have my girlfriend now, I still have a good amount of girls who basically hover around liking all my stuff and trying to talk to me.

Title	Its me or is almost imposible to get an stable relationship due to the easyness women have to meet new guys?
Author	joelpe
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Date	April 16, 2024 7:46 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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