When a guy gets a hookup, temp relationship, or pumped and dumped. If he found her really attractive he will process their time together, her naked, waking up to her. All in a mostly positive light, if he got ghosted, he still had that fun.

Let’s say you’re a woman and you didn’t want to be pumped and dumped that makes her sad, but thought she thought he was hot. Do you still think about it and get turned on?

Same thing goes for a relationship, he may hate what he did to her and regret even having it. Still he did it because he wanted her and he probably was happy at the time.

How do your feelings change about the times you had together when he breaks up with you and you were together for years? My experience and feelings is girls can change the past easier, don’t look back in fondness at most hookups.

If woman at the time thought the sex was really good and she had fun with the guy. Does she isolate that happiness in memories? Or did him not wanting to be with you serious with her ruin it?