Using your friend zone to your advantage!

Trey2022 · 2024-05-23T18:41:13+00:00

I mean if you genuinely like being around this girl then fine. But don’t pretend to be somebody’s friend for the sake of using them. Hot girls know other hot girls. But if the only reason you hang with that girl is for what you think she can do for you, then you have no hope to begin with anyway

AntEasy7172 · 2024-05-23T16:59:47+00:00

Damn, now I feel bad that this girl I had a crush on has so many guy friends.

Mahn...I'll keep this tip tho

epimpstyle · 2024-05-23T19:41:31+00:00

Interesting to see that someone else has the same concepts that I said months ago on reddit.

I said to keep the girls as your female friends even if they friendzone you because in many cases they are a wing for you and of course they provide social proof and DHV for you. Many guys block or stop talking to a girl who friendzoned them, but this is a big mistake.

DaygameCode · 2024-05-23T17:09:38+00:00

It’s actually a blessing disguised as a curse.

No, it’s not.

A girl friend will provide EXCELLENT SOCIAL PROOF!

Not necessarily. Social proof only happens when the girl is attractive and when she is visibly also clearly attracted to you.

Most guys who get friendzone look like puppy dogs or gay best friends at best following the girl everywhere and having platonic conversations, not to mention that as soon as someone asks “are you two dating?” the girl quickly rushes to say “oh never! We are just friends” and boom your “social proof” works completely against you.

Other women will wonder, “why does he have so many girls around him?”

The answer they assume is because the guy is their gay best friend, the type of needy guy who always goes out with all the female friends on a girls night out, and none of them want to fuck him. Attractive men usually want to avoid being seeing with other girls, because they don’t wanna get caught or lose options.

It’s also nice to have girlfriends to hang out with… even as a guy.. I enjoy women’s company.

Sure, it can be nice, but don’t expect it to help you in your seduction journey, because a guy who gets friendzone will usually have no clue how to pull girls even if social proof was working in his favour, for the simple fact that if he knew how to pull girls, he would not have gotten friendzoned in the first place.

Necessary-Jaguar4775 · 2024-05-23T22:43:03+00:00

Bad advice. Many times the girls who friend zone you sabotage your relationships or try to keep you even if they don't want you. I straight up asked a girl I was friend zoned by to hook me up and she gave some bullshit excuses. Many times they want to keep you to theirselves just to prop their ego.

Throwawayyiddykiyay · 2024-05-23T17:07:52+00:00

Idk man, my ego won't let me. Like I have so many gal pals that I just friend zone in the first place, I don't see the need to friend zone romantic prospects as well? Just feels like torture to reopen that wound again and again when you're with them cuz let's face it - you'll always still think about them romantically.

lordmcfarts · 2024-05-28T11:01:40+00:00

I think this is a great piece of advice. Female friends are fantastic if you treat them as friends. They are a key to understanding other women and they are the key to maximizing your own potential if you ask them.

But you need to actually think of them as friends otherwise the friendship will block you from dating women who are actually interested in you.

Lord_Asmodeus93 · 2024-05-23T20:21:25+00:00

Well said man.

Chicxulub420 · 2024-05-24T13:24:50+00:00

This sub just discovering that having friends is a good thing 💀

ThatgreatSpartan · 2024-05-26T18:26:50+00:00

I break all contact when I get friendzoned. It does me no good to continue communications with someone who has no interest in me.

InvestigatorCold4662 · 2024-05-27T15:08:10+00:00

Wtf happened to this sub? Why isn’t this horrible advice being downvoted into oblivion?

Hanging out with girls that you are chasing is never good idea. If you’ve been friend zoned, you need to leave. Your “friend” will do nothing but sabotage you.

The only thing hanging with your “friend” that also shot you down is going to do is lower your SMV and confidence.

Man, this sub has gone straight to hell.

Spiritual-Smoke-9498 · 2024-05-24T02:36:57+00:00

“Yay let’s be friend with the girl that thinks I’m not good enough for my genes to go next generation”

There’s a reason why it’s the meta to tell her to go fuck herself. She rejected you! Obviously there’s gray areas and being friend is better, but just saying, it certainly isn’t all roses and unicorns.

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-23T18:44:00+00:00

I don't see how this mindset is based on reality.

And kindly share how you are able to read other people's minds.

assukkar · 2024-05-24T13:05:37+00:00

The best women to be friends with are the ones in a committed relationship or married.

Anything other than that will definitely have some sexual tension from their part or yours.

offinthewoods10 · 2024-05-24T17:05:50+00:00

I have a ton of attractive friends now, and you are right. It broadens your social circle so much and removes the stranger factor. “oh you’re friends with her? You must be pretty cool then”

This happens with other guys and women. Having mutual friends makes things so much simpler in the early stages.

kalaamtext · 2024-05-23T23:16:53+00:00

In some cases eventually the girl that friend zoned you might have a change of heart and want to take a dip on ya stick now

Title	Using your friend zone to your advantage!
Author	hollywood21
Upvotes	160
Comments	67
Date	May 23, 2024 4:37 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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