The Major Predictors of Long-Term Involuntary Singlehood

LouisdeRouvroy · 2024-06-02T01:09:04+00:00

For women, a higher probability of being involuntarily single was associated with factors including poor flirting ability, elevated choosiness, and a low level of agreeableness. A high level of choosiness was also associated with having been single for a greater number of years.

Quelle surprise !

Common-Ferret-1435 · 2024-06-02T01:01:41+00:00

Sheesh I almost don’t want to comment.

For women: you want to be/you must have 6’4” millionaire chad and refuse to go an inch less or a dollar short.

I mean Psychology Today has the most ridiculous takes on anything on the planet. It’s been 100% fake news for years.

For men: we all know why. It doesn’t need to be said. They’re single for very specific metrics and they all rhyme with “have a great personality” and “confidence” right? Right?

disayle32 · 2024-06-02T05:51:25+00:00

There are many distinct advantages to being single, that prepare us for coupledom

Uh huh. That logic completely falls apart when you apply it literally anywhere else. "There are many distinct advantages to being unemployed that prepare us for employment."

Losing endlessly doesn't prepare you for winning. Only winning prepares you for winning.

TisIChenoir · 2024-06-02T07:31:51+00:00

"Incels are single because they have unhealthy expectations, and don't try do date at their level". - Every fucking one on reddit when a man complains about being single

Yeah bro, that's exactly what it is... 2 seconds of thinking is enough to understand than involuntarily single men are probably the least demanding out there, and suffer from a very low self-esteem and don't believe in their ability to get a relationship.

And how to blame them, with society basically telling them that because they're men, they are bumbling idiots, sexual predators, monsters hiding in plain sight. And that women are far better humand being than them?

Society does nothing to prop up men. And yet asks them to be the ones initiating and carrying a conversation, to act only on raw self-confidence. It's psychotic.

Can you imagine if society spent an ungodly amount of resources telling women they suck at something (let's say, teaching), and yet expecting them to be the ones doing the teaching work? Would we ever blame women for not wanting to enter a field they're told they basically biooogically suck at?

Slight-Rent-883 · 2024-06-02T02:14:43+00:00

Jeezus "the social psychology behind incels" as if incels are part of some insane asylum

Naraksama · 2024-06-02T01:35:57+00:00

I consider myself an incel. I don't believe a woman would ever love a 5'7 chubby, feminine, weak man with mental issues. I dream of a strong woman calling me cute, but I know it's unrealistic. I have been attacked and harassed for my preferences from both men and women and at this point, it's a lost cause. Every time I think that I should start dating, I get hundred reasons why I shouldn't.

Title	The Major Predictors of Long-Term Involuntary Singlehood
Author	BKEnjoyerV2
Upvotes	74
Comments	21
Date	June 2, 2024 12:47 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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