My ex GF said she was a virgin when I met her. I remember her being very tight during sex. The first time, even though she was very wet, I physically couldn't even put it inside her.

There's a different girl that I had gone on a couple dates with recently, and we were kissing and she was giving me a handjob. Her asshole sort of had like, I don't know exactly how to describe and I don't exactly remember, but I do remember thinking 'I feel like this girl has had anal sex before'. Like her asshole, rather than being a clean hole, looked like there had been physical trauma and tampering to it. Her vagina also was an 'outie', and those lips sort of just flapped open.

I was only half hard looking at this and she said she was on her period so I didn't put it in. Honestly, maybe she just had an outie vagina, but her vagina appearance, combined with her asshole appearance, combined with the fact that I heard from another girl that in college she was known for dating a lot of guys / stealing guys from their GFs... it just got me thinking.

Has anybody else ever experienced something like this? We are still going on dates, and we haven't gotten physical since then (which is fine, I like talking to her and getting to know her). But I was just curious, I feel like down the line if we got in a relationship, I would be thinking about the other guys she has dated (some of them she has posted on her IG, and then also I might ask the friend girl who went to college with her).

BTW, I've never been red pill, but I do remember times in college where it was hard for me to get a date. I do agree with the idea that physical appearance matters a lot for men (I've gotten plastic surgery that drastically improved my life). The reason I posted here is just bc I thought I could maybe get some interesting ideas from people who have been on both sides of the aisle.