Suggestions for topics for my blog, Christina the Egalitarian?

BootyBRGLR69 · 2024-07-30T04:06:04+00:00

Hyperagency/hypoagency bias

end-the-run · 2024-07-30T12:36:18+00:00

Abusive behaviors men have to cope with just to participate in the dating market. Stalking, financial entitlement, emotional coercion, triangulation (being pitted against her loved ones), verbal abuse, slander and smearing to others, etc.

All of these I've seen first hand happen to myself or another man in my life.

HantuBuster · 2024-07-30T05:37:20+00:00

Infant genital mutilation for boys and girls.

omegaphallic · 2024-07-30T14:44:38+00:00

Boys falling behind in school.

Toronto's only Domestic Violence Shelter fir men and the lack of such shelters in general.

Men being disprortionately being victims of workplace deaths and injuries, by alot.

Vilifiacation of male sexuality.

jessi387 · 2024-07-30T03:12:52+00:00

The inability to address the evolutionary biases that are disadvantageous to men. As a society we have talked about biases that have effected women for almost 40 years. Not a peep about things that hurt men that evolved over 40 000 years but are no longer relevant today yet still drive our behaviour. “Male disposability” being the most obvious.

Karen Straughn has made a video about this title feminism and the disposable male. Give it a look.

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2024-07-30T12:49:04+00:00

The inequalities of family courts.

Inequalities of rape laws.

How false rape accusations destroy men's lives

Lack of resources for male domestic violence victims

Illustrious_Bus9486 · 2024-07-30T03:15:33+00:00

Paper abortion

Mandatory paternity testing

Almahue · 2024-07-30T14:50:17+00:00

The legal definition of rape excludes the vast majority of male victims and female rapists.

And then, that same definition is used in studies.

And then, misandrists have the gall to use the stats from those same studies to claim rape is a gendered issue.

It's a multi layered problem, but my point is: 1 in 9 (possibly 1 in 2 considering men's 84% tendency to be in denial) have been raped, but made to penetrate is categorized as “other contact sexual violence" so most people wouldn't know.

Trollsense · 2024-07-30T16:59:21+00:00

Appreciate you writing a blog, look forward to reading it.

griii2 · 2024-07-30T18:37:43+00:00

I wrote a post on how UN cheats with the gender development index to falsely claim that women are less developed than men when the opposite is true.I can help you find it.

PrettyText · 2024-07-31T09:16:34+00:00

How to actually make progress with men's rights. It's obvious to any rational person that certain kinds of anti-male discrimination are bad, but then how do you go about actually ending that discrimination in the real world.

Because right now, it looks like you either get radical feminists trying to shut you down, or you get people saying "instead of fixing things for men we should improve things for everyone", or you get people saying "yeah I guess you do have a point there", but at the end of the day nothing actually changes.

PrettyText · 2024-07-31T09:37:00+00:00

Roughly speaking, right now women have cherrypicked the best bonuses from both the traditional and the modern gender roles, while refusing to accept the responsibilities of either.

So for example, in a divorce, women almost always get the children and possibly half the man's stuff, because that's what the traditional gender roles say. Even though that's not what the modern gender roles say, which state that men and women are equal, implying that women shouldn't by default get the kids. (Research also doesn't show that children of single moms do better than children of single dads.)

However, women of course don't accept the drawbacks / responsibilities / expectations that come with the traditional gender role. So they're cherrypicking the bonuses while refusing to accept the responsibilities.

Similarly, women of course want the perks of modern gender roles, to the point where some women want preferential hiring of women to enforce equality of outcome. But at the same time, you have radical feminists shutting down any attempt to open male shelters, which runs counter to modern gender roles which state that men can be victims too.

The question is: what should be done.

The obvious solution might seem to just engage in a campaign to actually adopt modern gender roles (and hence fix divorce court etc). And maybe that is the solution, but that runs into the problem that so many people still have traditional-gender-roles-biases that I don't actually see this being implemented any time soon.

For example, even just the observation that currently women get lighter sentences for the same crime. Okay, then to adopt modern gender roles, we should give harsher sentences to guilty women than they get now, to make it in line with the sentences that men get. Yet in practice, I don't see a campaign of "give harsher sentences to women" actually succeeding.

But if modern gender roles can't be fully implemented, then what should actually be done? Because giving women the benefits of both traditional and modern gender roles, and the responsibilities of neither, isn't fair to men.

I'm not saying "enforce traditional gender roles on everyone", but I don't really know what the solution actually should be.

PrettyText · 2024-07-31T09:14:50+00:00

Dating is currently broken (here's one way in which it's broken). How to improve that.

Puzzleheaded_Pea_889 · 2024-08-01T01:08:24+00:00

I’d be interested in hearing about the experiences which drive men into incel communities, what caused men to leave such communities (dm me if you want a first-hand account), and ways men respond to casual misandry.

Also - if you haven’t done so already, consider making a podcast where you either read your blog posts or have text2speech software do it. You can reach a larger audience that way.

OutrageouslyGr8 · 2024-08-10T11:18:39+00:00

Men's mental health. Tips on how to improve it would be nice. I get therapy being an option, but I think it would be better to have an option that lets you work through it on your own.

The dangers of online influencers/ celebrities but from both sides because no side is 100% good

Men and their "Daddy" issues. I recently discovered that I might have issues with my dad by watching The Simpsons and specifically looking at Bart, Homer, and Abe's dynamics together.

"The fear of passing trauma/issues to their kids or the fear of becoming like their father" could be an interesting topic. This topic may have been addressed in videos about Kratos and Atreus' relationship in God of War Ragnarok. Here's a video. I'm still working through it myself.

Men and their "Mommy" issues.

Men who agree with equality and want women to be treated as equals but don't really identify as feminists.

Men and the danger of expectations. Especially the ones they place on themselves and the self-loathing that comes with it.

Sorry, I've responded 11 days late. I'm not active on this sub.

Title	Suggestions for topics for my blog, Christina the Egalitarian?
Author	christina_murray_
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Date	July 30, 2024 2:47 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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