Hey,

preface: In my childhood i was always a bit of an outsider. While i was considered gifted, i was severely overweight, i didnt take care of my looks and was a shy. Later during high school, i managed to lose the weight and went to the gym but i stayed rather chubby. Paired with being a late bloomer and looking very young, it kinda spured in me some feelings of not being attractive to girls. I still managed to get my first gf at 15-16 but it ended rather baldy when i was 18-19.

At that time, i was for the first time considered looking rather attractive but still very young. When i went out as a 18-21 year old, people assumed that i was 16-17. This was obviously not very popular with girls who tend to go for older guys. I still managed to date a few girls, but mostly in the 5-7/10 bracket. My game was very basic, i used some stuff i read here and just tried to be a normal guy and get a bit out of my shell, which worked not badly. My game was still very weak at that time.

Fast forward to roughly a year ago (i am 24 now). I managed to lose even further weight and finally reached a body fat percentage which i never achieved yet. My face started to look waay more chiseled. Suddenly, i would walk around as a good looking guy. I dated girls who were so attractive, which i never expected in my dreams. At work, a 9/10 coworker, who recently moved to the city and stayed in the higher social cirlce and dated mostly models, actors and famous people, was very into me. She made advances, she asked me why i dont model. I heard from various people in different settings that i look like superman or they compared me to various actors.

This is not an humble brag, because i am still rather shortish for my country (5'10) and i have a rather small frame. I am not super masculine, my voice is on the higher side and i still look young (mostly 20-21 is what i hear). And after being not very attractive for whole my life, this situation kinda overwhelmed me. I cant realyl take the compliments in a good way. People say that i give fuckboy energy. They assume that i am arrogant or self loving asshole which couldnt be furhter from the truth. There is still the fat kid inside of me, who didnt get taken seriously because he looked always young.

Now i experimented with some different approaches to game, mostly through dates on dating apps. I tried, for exmaple, the cocky asshole game but everytime i did that it went horribly wrong. Girls hated that and i start to think that many game techniques that work for average looking dudes comes off as arrogant when used by good looking guys.

When i tried to just act like i dont know that i am good looking, it worked way better, at least for the girls in the 6-8/10 bracket. But when i try to act humble, being more serious minded, honest etc. with good looking girls, it backfired too.

I just feel like i am in a new situation and it made everything i learned over the years obsolete. Thats why i am asking u guys, as a attractive good looking guy, what is different and hwat type of game makes the most sense? Should i just go full fuckboy?