I guess I'm just wondering opinion's, suggestions, or if someone can tell me if I'm overreacting here. I just went on vacation with my 4 and 7yr old kids. One night out of the blue my oldest son told me that his mom goes for a run every night for an hour or more after she puts them to sleep. I live in Oklahoma and while I'm aware that there aren't any laws of how old a child has to be to be left alone it just seems altogether like a terrible idea. I have left my 7 year old home for no longer than 15min at a time when its just him, but I have never left my 4 yr by himself other than being outside while he is inside playing. I feel that's just way to young. Am I overreacting, is there anything I can do in this situation? Also talking with my STBXW is nearly impossible. (Side Note) Since the divorce started she doesn't respond to any communications for the most part, and will only respond to things she wants to so trying to speak this through with her won't be an option. Any advice is greatly appreciated!