I missed out on the college experience and I am pissed off about it, what can I do in my adult years to make up for lost time?

awalt_cupcake · 2015-08-27T07:13:13+00:00

College student here. Think of college as a vacation resort that the average American goes to. Sure sex happens, sure parties happen, but so does a ton of other shit including massive student debt, murder, false rape accusations, and fake friends.

I have never been to Disney land, didny worl, Orlando universal, or any of that hyped shit but I'd like to except it won't cost $60k and 4 years.

Go to Disney world and take a nice slut with you and fuck her behind the little Mermaid set or something. That's a cooler story than banging sorority sisters. I fucked a sorority girl. It was just ok. It compared nothing to the daddy issues girl who majored in math.

Stereotypes be damned not everything is as amazing as it is made out to be especially if you were never a part of it.

PrimePussyOverRancid · 2015-08-27T09:09:58+00:00

make popular frat boys envious

Here's reality: those frat boys have moved on, they came, saw, and conquered the sorority sluts, and will be working at the jobs they got through connections.

They have their own lives, they won't care what some nerd in their graduating year has done. If you somehow become Mr. Big Time and they somehow remember who you were in college, the ones who become envious of you due to egos will say, "At least I got laid every night in college. That guy was a loser. Kek"

My advice: Live a genuinely interesting life for you and only you, not for hot women. Women should be like numero cinco in your life.

you
your career, dreams, and hobbies
your family
your dog
hot women

Number 1 and 2 will get you everything else.

kempff · 2015-08-27T07:14:43+00:00

Been there done that got the t-shirt.

Look up Aaron Clarey aka Captain Capitalism and figure out for yourself that you missed nothing. Or email the guy personally and ask for advice.

A_Modest_Dictator · 2015-08-27T07:37:35+00:00

are you me? pretty much my situation.

RichieFinn · 2015-08-27T09:43:36+00:00

So, you have decided your life is now dedicated to making other people you view as "better than you" feel jealous. I dont know if you realise, but thats quite pathetic.

uhmmmusername · 2015-08-27T09:30:37+00:00

Welcome to Europe, where colleges don't exist. I guess our lives are still pretty OK.

Archwinger · 2015-08-27T11:49:37+00:00

There are better adventures than college in life. Lots of people do the college drinking, partying, sex thing. Go do something most people never do. That's way more interesting.

jeezydasnowman · 2015-08-27T07:51:29+00:00

If you feel that strongly about it go into bartending or teach esl in party cities abroad.

notmyusualreddit · 2015-08-27T08:02:11+00:00

A frat doesn't do that just for anyone. There were still dorks and nerds in my fraternity, although they atleast had a chance if they wanted to step up.

If you're still in college, spend as little time in your actual room or apartment as possible. Study on campus, in cafes, libraries. Get to know your campus and town Events pages online. Talk to women you see around campus and invite them to these events. Hell, even invite your male friends also. While at these events, be fun and interesting and you'll have most fun and friends than many frat guys.

[deleted] · 2015-08-27T11:12:17+00:00

Travel the world. Go live in another country for a year. Backpack. Stay in hostels and meet different people. Drink strange drinks in random locations with strangers. Say yes to any opportunity whilst on the road.

I loved the college life for three years. I then spent the next 4 years living abroad and travelling the globe and spent the following 3 travelling at any opportunity. That was way more fun than any experience I had in college.

Use your 20's for travelling, relating to the world and connecting with its people. Don't settle just yet. Life, careers, marriage, kids all that suit can wait. Trust me, all my buddies who married and settled early envy that I spent the majority of my 20's doing this.

TRP_Fraternity · 2015-08-27T13:56:14+00:00

People will tell you you can, but you can't. The people who tell you you can have not lived that life. The ease and access to 10's Thursday-Sunday is unprecedented.

soontobgrad · 2015-08-27T07:36:55+00:00

You'll never know what it's like to be in a popular fraternity in college. To go through rush and get that bid, eventually moving into the frat house what neighboring sorority houses nearby. Spending your nights partying with sorority sisters and future pro athletes at your school as you're there with a few of your close male friends. All of your vacations spent with friends and your interest of lust who is in a sorority as you enjoy the last days of your youth. Drinking, partying, and all of the cute innocent stuff as you enjoy those 4 years before awaiting the hell people call the real world. The nights you spend blackout drunk and those mornings you wake up next to a naked sorostitute, fun. Going to events with your brothers and having that support group and community that bring you happiness in life. Being that stud and having all the hot girls gossip about you in a positive way as your brothers motivate you to go out there and get your fucking dick wet.

It all ends so soon, just like that, it's gone. You're done, you're finished, and now it's time to be a big boy. Time to work a job, pay those taxes, and go to sleep on time so you can wake up early in the morning to get to work. All those college bars loaded with sorority sisters now become normal bars loaded with thirsty men, hogs, and the few average women who see themselves as models. Such is life in America, you only get the first 21 years to enjoy all of the sex, partying, social opportunities, and fun that life throws your way until you turn into an adult and it's time for the government to tax the life out of you.

Title	I missed out on the college experience and I am pissed off about it, what can I do in my adult years to make up for lost time?
Author	dabababagoose
Upvotes	10
Comments	22
Date	August 27, 2015 7:05 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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