Vent/Rant/FML I M(26) have been married 5 years to my wife F(24). I apologise this will likley be a long rant but advice is needed.

This all started a few years back me and wife started having big fights around tge time my first daughter was born. We worked through it but now after the birth of our second daughter things are getting bad again.

Please let me say in advance I am not perfect. I forget things easily, I don't always have the best attitude more on that later and sometimes I can seem to loose common sense and sometimes I dont listen/ I have minor hearing damage.

Now that's out the way let me say I love my daughters with all my heart but they cam be a handful esspeically my oldest. My wife is on maternity leave so is with the girls all day while I'm at work. Raising 2 young children by yourself is difficult and I have huge respect for my wife and difficult this can be she dose do a great job. But as I said they can he a handful.

The problems I am having is with my wifes attitude and disrespect towards me. She will constantly blame me for everything. Belittle my job which is a challenging job and constantly tell me how easy I have it. I hate my job btw but can't quit because it pays the bills and I need time to find a new 1 likely a few years. She will constantly call me names, insult me or complain about something ive done.

For context I help around the house. I do the night feeds for our youngest meaning I gwt about 4 hours sleep a night. I wash the clothes, wash the dishes, cook about half the meals, bath and bedtime the kids, plus help with genral jobs like hovering and such. As well as always being the 1 to pop to the shop for a item or get her a drink/snack. I often encourage her to take a break when I can and I'm home so she can chill and read a book while I deal with our girls.

I will give a example of the day today. I went to sleep at midnight and woke up at 6am to get ready for work. I woke up at 4am for a hour to feed our daughter as well. When I woke up in the morning I got ready for work and made a bottle ready for when my daughter would wake up at 8am so it was ready for my wife. I then went to work for the morning as I said my job requires alot of thinking and heavy lifting so can be tiring. I came home to lunch and fed my daughter lunch chnaged there bums and made lunch for my wife. I then went back to work for the afternoon. When I got home I had a hour and half before a work event that evening. It was heavily implied I should attend and my wife had said it was fine earlier that day as I was undersided. I eat dinner bathed my oldest chnaged and ready for bed both there bums again and did the washing up before I went. I told my wife I would not be long and would be home by 8pm and I was only having 1 beer. I followed this to the letter and got home at 7:45. I then put my daughter to bed fed the other. The whole day at various points my wife has called me names, complained I haven't done anything or blhad a attitude with me. I found out by her own admission she had tried to lock me out the house so I couldn't get in bed the lock hadn't worked. She has also told me off for being snappy or blunt with the girls(not something I proud of) moaned at me for going to the event, told me I hadn't helped enough before going, that I was useless when I'm home and that I have it so easy at work.

Quite a long story but that's about the same as most days to give you a idea. I'm not sure what to do if I mention how I feel or that something she says hurts me she won't apologise and just complain about something else or that she's had a hard day. I'm not sure what I should do more or if this is just doomed. I'm exhausted constantly and often died coming home from work.

Any advice appricated. Am I overreacting and being silly or is my unhappiness justified